I can’t tell you how often I talk to women who are thriving in their career and personal growth journey… yet still find love confusing, exhausting, and out of reach.
They tell me things like:
“I attract interest, but the ones I want never fully choose me… and the ones who do? There’s just no spark.”
And
“I’m smart, successful, and self-aware… why is this the one area of my life I can’t seem to figure out?”
You’re exactly where you need to be.
Ready to stop attracting the wrong men and finally create the relationship your soul’s been craving?
You’ve vented to friends (who are either just as confused or already partnered), and walked away with plenty of well-meaning advice that doesn’t actually fit your situation.
Still, you reluctantly return to the dating apps, hoping to find your person – only to wind up drained by shallow conversations, ghosting, or matches who don’t align.
Relatable?
You’ve collected tips, tactics, and contradictory dating advice – but none of it’s resulted in the deep shift you’re craving.
Like them, you’ve probably read all the books, binged the relationship podcasts, and followed more than a few ‘love gurus’ on Instagram…
You need a clear, step-by-step journey that actually works – one that helps you break the cycle for good and become magnetic to the kind of love you know is possible.
Here's the truth.
You don’t need more random advice from the internet.
Whether you’re feeling jaded from dating apps, anxious about your love life, or unsure how to shift the energy you’re bringing to relationships, this program is your path to lasting love – the kind that calls you forward and inspires your next evolution.
Over the course of 4 months I’ll guide you step-by-step to go from stuck in old patterns and second-guessing yourself to radiant, self-assured, and attracting emotionally available men with ease.
Which is why The Alchemy of Attraction was made for you.
I can do this because I’ve been where you are... and I know what it really takes to attract lasting, soul-nourishing love.
Not so long ago, I was stuck in the same exhausting cycles – attracting emotionally unavailable men, (or men who liked me but it felt like settling) second-guessing myself, and wondering why love felt so hard when I was doing everything “right.”
Unaware of my own shadows, projections, and wounds – and how they were quietly sabotaging my chance at lasting love.
Trying to subtly control and manipulate dating situations in an effort to keep a man interested and feel secure.
Swinging between squashing my boundaries to keep him close, and setting them so hard I shut intimacy out before it had a chance to grow.
Recklessly jumping into bed with the wrong men, mistaking chemistry for connection.
Ignoring my intuition, clinging to potential, and calling it love – until reality hit hard.
I was...
Eventually I decided to stop winging it and committed to learning what it really takes to create lasting attraction and secure love.
Happily married to the love of my life, in a relationship that feels deeply passionate and profoundly safe
A well-loved, well-f*cked and well-resourced woman with a partner who sees and adores every part of me.
Grounded in my worth, knowing I don’t have to chase, prove, or perform to be chosen.
Firm with my boundaries, generous with my love – someone who knows when to speak up and when to lean back and trust.
Clear on what it means to “keep my side of the street clean” so our relationship continues to grow and thrive.
Now I am...
For the past decade, I’ve been guiding women through the messy, tender, and powerful process of transforming their love lives from the inside out.
Along the way, I’ve co-authored a book with my psychiatrist father, and shared my work in places like Cosmopolitan, Mamamia, Body+Soul, ABC Radio, podcasts, and even a few segments on The Morning Show on Channel 9.
But more than any feature or title, what I care about most is helping women like you break old patterns and create the kind of extraordinary love they once thought was out of reach.
After years of exploring the dynamics of attraction, healing old wounds, and learning how to approach relationships in a whole new way, I made it my mission to share what I’d learned.
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This program has already supported dozens of women to attract their life partners, create secure, lasting relationships, get married, start families – and most importantly, break the cycle of bad love.
Every woman who joins doesn’t just transform her own love life…
She becomes a living example of what’s possible.
A ripple effect of healthy, empowered love that extends far beyond just her.
👇See for yourself.
To the woman you’ve always been beneath the fear, masks, and old survival patterns.
So you can reconnect with the version of you that’s fully alive – radiant with passion, pleasure, and play.
And be ready for love that feels safe, electric, and true.
This is the work that frees you from the unconscious patterns keeping you stuck…
The ones that make you second-guess, self-protect, or sabotage the very thing you want most.
It’s also the work that heals your relationship with men – so you can finally receive the love your heart has been yearning for
I’m here to walk you home to yourself.
Kate, 31
"AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!
Before doing AOA I felt lost in the world of dating and relationships. I was battling with online dating, trying to make sense of what I was supposed to be doing and just kept thinking I was doing everything wrong. The course highlighted many habits of mine that were not serving my goals. It allowed me to understand why I made those choices and I was given practical advice so I could stop pushing the right kind of men away."
Stacey, 34
"I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!
Now I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives.
Whether you’re ready to date, currently dating or in a relationship – I truly believe there’s something for everyone in AOA."
sheridan, 34
"If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!
I was single for about 10 years before I found this work and I felt like I had lost my way. Since doing this course, I have married a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself. I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have!"
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It’s an initiation.
A reclamation.
A complete energetic reset.
You’ll shift the patterns that keep you stuck in “almosts” and unavailable love.
You’ll stop questioning your worth – or wondering why this is the one area that never quite lands.
You’ll awaken the part of you that knows how to be chosen.
How to be met.
How to receive.
This is where your nervous system learns what secure love feels like.
And where your body becomes a home for intimacy, devotion, and eros.
After The Alchemy of Attraction, dating won’t feel like a game or a grind.
It will feel natural, empowering and even fun again.
Because you won’t just know how to attract good love…
You’ll become the woman who embodies it.
The Alchemy of Attraction is not your average dating course.
If you feel the pull… trust it.
This is your next step.
A deep, secure relationship with a man who fully sees, chooses, and cherishes you.
To feel radiant, turned on, and confident in your love life.
To date with clarity, ease, and self-trust – no more second-guessing or overthinking.
To express your needs and boundaries with grace and power.
To experience love as something that expands you, not drains you.
You want...
You’re not here by accident.
You’re here because you’re ready.
You keep attracting emotionally unavailable men who never fully choose you back.
You’ve lost your spark, and dating feels more like a chore than a joy.
You’re stuck in analysis paralysis, unsure what to do differently or why it keeps going wrong.
You struggle to set boundaries that stick – either compromising your needs or shutting down.
You’re tired of "doing the work" and still ending up in the same place.
but currently...
Including all future updates so you can revisit the material anytime you want a refresh or energetic reset.
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Lifetime Access
Released throughout the program to deepen your awareness and keep the momentum flowing.
Bonus Audio Trainings
Of like-minded women offering support, accountability, and sisterhood between sessions.
Private Community
And journal prompts to help you embody the work and apply it to your real-life dating experiences.
Integration Practices
For personalised support, deeper integration, and direct coaching with me. (Recordings available)
4 Live Q&A Calls
On embodied attraction, male/female dynamics & how to create a secure, lasting relationship.
8 Live Masterclasses
Here’s how it all unfolds:
4 months of dating and relationship mentorship that sets you up with a clear, grounded framework for understanding relationships and breaking old patterns – so you can attract love with clarity, show up with confidence, and create a partnership that truly expands you.
Inside The Alchemy of Attraction, you’ll receive:
Lauren, 33
Before doing AOA I felt insecure and unsure about how to find and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. I saw this affect how I showed up in my work life, friendships and even with my family. I had also just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again.
Through doing this work I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour, as I was able to identify and avoid partners that were not suitable for me, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.
I'm now married to the man of my dreams – which is huge, because I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before!
AMY, 41
Before joining AOA I was feeling intimidated by dating as my previous relationship was abusive and I hadn’t dated anyone seriously for six years. While I had done my healing in therapy, I lacked confidence in dating and was terrified of picking the wrong person again.
I found this program helped me to understand how to show up and be the best version of myself. It also taught me wonderful strategies for handling different dating situations, how to recognise potential high-quality partners and how to pace relationships for success so a strong emotional connection can develop. This has given me loads of confidence in dating!
Choosing to do AOA has been the best money I’ve ever spent on investing in myself and my future! Initially I was worried it was too much to spend on myself, but after the first lesson, it just confirmed that I had made the right decision.
Margaret, 72
Before I started this work, I was always seeming to be attracted to men who were unavailable. Since working with Jiveny, I’ve been fortunate to meet a lovely, healthy and available man who is genuinely interested in me and in sharing the next chapters of our lives together. He ticks all of the boxes that I was looking for - he’s good at communicating and listening, secure in himself, warm, affectionate and both interesting and interested in many things. We've been together for nearly 3 years now and I can really truthfully say that this is a relationship which is so satisfying and fulfilling – more than I ever thought a relationship could be. It’s just the most extraordinary experience!
“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man.
christie, 37
Before I made the decision to join the Alchemy of Attraction, I found myself feeling bitter and jaded by the whole dating world and experience. I wanted a solid relationship but fears and insecurities kept rearing their head. I found this program really insightful. It's given me an invaluable perspective shift and renewed energy which has made me feel hopeful about dating again. If I hadn’t made the choice to do this course, I think I would have continued down a dark and bitter path becoming more and more despondent. AOA has helped me feel empowered and hopeful – after completing the course I quickly felt ready to get back out there!
Since doing this course I've felt more sure of myself and more aware of the patterns and dynamics that tend to play out in my dating experiences. I’ve also started dating a wonderful guy and have felt confident in progressing the relationship.
sheridan, 34
I was single for about 10 years before I found this work and I felt like I had lost my way. Since doing this course, I have married a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself. I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have! If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time. I also don’t think I would have been able to experience this relationship or formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment).
"If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!
Kate, 31
Before doing AOA I felt lost in the world of dating and relationships. I was battling with online dating, trying to make sense of what I was supposed to be doing and just kept thinking I was doing everything wrong. The course highlighted many habits of mine that were not serving my goals. It allowed me to understand why I made those choices and I was given practical advice so I could stop pushing the right kind of men away. Perhaps the biggest takeaway from the course was learning about the power of all 4 archetypes and why it's important to let them be seen when dating. Showing ALL of them is what is going to attract a great man - not just showing one!
AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!
stacey, 34
AOA helped me to harness my personal power and build a strong foundation for relating and developing intimacy in a healthy and sustainable way. It taught me about the many and varied ways in which I can invite certain behaviours, and attributes in men – that I am never a passive recipient in my relationships. Now I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives.
Everyone should do this course! Whether you’re ready to date, currently dating or in a relationship – I truly believe there’s something for everyone in AOA."
"I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!
Embodying unshakable confidence and magnetic energy
Mastering the dance of attraction in a way that feels natural
Navigating love with emotional intelligence and self-trust
Raising your standards without closing your heart
Creating a relationship that’s secure, sexy, and built to last
This is about...
Perfecting “the rules” to make him chase you
Following rigid “high-value woman” checklists
Using psychology hacks to manipulate a man into commitment
Manifesting love through mindset alone, while taking no practical action
Contorting yourself to keep a connection alive
This is not about...
The Alchemy of Attraction dating & relationship course isn't like other programs out there
Be in the driver’s seat of your love life and actually enjoy dating again – No more feeling powerless, exhausted, or confused. You’ll date with confidence, clarity, and a sense of ease.
Have high-quality men pursuing you for commitment (#choices!) – Instead of chasing or settling, you’ll naturally attract emotionally available men who step up, prioritize you, and want to invest in a future with you.
Feel confident (and maybe even a little turned on) by how you interact with men – No more overthinking or second-guessing. You’ll trust yourself to show up with magnetism, playfulness, and self-assurance.
Express your desires and boundaries without fear of scaring him off – No more shrinking, over-explaining, or people-pleasing. You’ll communicate in a way that feels effortless and attracts the right kind of commitment.
Break free from old patterns and attract the relationship you actually want – Whether it’s unavailable men, anxious attachment, or self-sabotage, you’ll finally shift the deep-rooted dynamics that have held you back.
Be in a relationship so loving, supportive, and expansive that it fuels your biggest dreams – Whether that’s starting a business, a family, or simply living with more joy, your relationship will lift you up—not weigh you down.
Imagine what it would be like to…
Through this work, you’ll become the kind of woman who doesn’t just hope for great love – she attracts it. Naturally. Unapologetically. Without having to chase.
Hear what Stacey, 34, had to say about The Alchemy of Attraction.
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Here’s how it works:
AOA Live starts on 13 June and finishes on 26 September, 2025.
FYI: This may be the last time I offer The Alchemy of Attraction live.
Even if you can’t make every call, joining this round means you’ll still be held by the collective energy and receive real-time support through our online community.
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You won’t find a full timetable of calls listed here, because if this program is meant for you, you’ll find a way to show up. And if you can’t be there live? You’ll still receive the full transmission, the teachings, the energy, and the transformation.
I’ve designed this course to be accessible – even for those with full lives and full calendars.
Because love doesn’t wait until things slow down.
It arrives when you decide you're ready.
This isn’t just about finding love.
It’s about becoming the woman who can attract it, receive it and grow it without losing herself in the process.
You’re not here to play games that require you to shrink, chase, or perform.
You’re here to love as you.
As a woman in her power and her wholeness.
The Alchemy of Attraction is the exact body of work that helped me to get off the dating merry-go-round and into the most satisfying relationship of my life.
A Note From Me...
You’ve got the clarity—now it’s time to claim the transformation.
I get it – I’ve been there too. That’s why The Alchemy of Attraction is designed to be easy to start, simple to follow, and powerful enough to return to again and again. You’ll get lifetime access, and all modules are available in audio format so you can listen on the go—whether you're walking the dog or driving to work.
Many past students loved it so much they’ve done it multiple times, gaining new insights with each round. This isn’t just a course you complete—it’s one that keeps growing with you.
I’ve bought courses before and never finished them. What makes this different?
There are two ways you can do this, either submit a question through the online group or join me for one of the regular group Q&A sessions, where I'll answer you live during the online call.
How can I contact you with questions during the course?
You’ll receive lifetime access to all content, including any future updates or bonus resources added over time — so you can return to the teachings again and again as you grow.
How long will I have access to the course materials?
Yes. Every Q&A call includes opportunities to ask questions and receive direct guidance from me. Plus, you’ll have access to a private community for connection between calls – and if you’d like deeper support, there’s an option to upgrade to 1:1 coaching.
Will I receive personalised support during the program?
Due to the energetic nature of this container and the instant access to materials, there are no refunds. Your enrolment is a commitment to yourself – and I’m here to support you fully in making the most of it.
What is your refund policy?
You’re not alone – and you’re not broken. This program is designed to help you reconnect with your radiance, shift your patterns, and start attracting emotionally available partners who are ready for what you’re ready for.
What if I’ve been single for a long time and feel discouraged?
That’s totally okay – and actually, this is a great time to do this work. Many women join before getting back out there, so they can date with clarity, confidence, and a new energetic foundation.
What if I’m not currently dating or in a relationship?
This is an open-enrollment program, so there’s no cap on numbers – but in past rounds, we’ve had between 10–15 participants, and I expect a similar range. If more women join this round, it only enriches the experience with more diversity, shared insights, and collective support. Whether there are 8 or 30 of us, the space will be intimate, powerful, and well-held.
How many people will be in the program?
You’ll want to set aside about 90 minutes a week during teaching weeks (we meet three weeks out of each month). Integration weeks are yours to rest, reflect, or revisit the material at your own pace. That said — this course is designed for busy people. You can access everything from your phone, so feel free to listen while you drive, walk, clean — whatever works for you. Just taking it in can be life-changing.
How much time will this program take?
All sessions are held live via Zoom on a Friday at 12.30pm AEST and are recorded so you can catch up or rewatch anytime. You’ll receive call links and access to replays in your course portal within 24 hours.
When and how will the calls take place, and what if I can’t make it live?
We run in a 4-week rhythm:
🌀 Week 1 – Live Masterclass
🌀 Week 2 – Live Masterclass
🌀 Week 3 – Live Group Q&A
🌀 Week 4 – Integration Week (no live calls)
This gives you time to process, apply, and embody what you’re learning, without feeling rushed or overwhelmed.
What is the format of the program?
It depends on your budget and the level of support you’re looking for. My 1:1 packages start at $6,000 and include The Alchemy of Attraction as the core foundation. If you're after high-touch, personalised guidance and are ready to invest, you can apply - just note that spots are limited and often fill quickly, so availability isn’t guaranteed.
That said, this program includes live support calls and a like-minded community, offering you real-time advice, feedback, and connection.
Might 1:1 coaching be a better fit?
Yes. The Alchemy of Attraction offers a unique approach that blends deep inner work with practical dating strategy – and what I teach inside this container is something you’ll be hard-pressed to find anywhere else. If you’ve done other work but still feel stuck, this is designed to take you deeper and help you create lasting change.
Is this program for me if I’ve tried other dating courses or therapy before?
Frequently Asked Questions:
your questions answered
Lauren, 33
Before doing AOA I felt insecure and unsure about how to find and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. I saw this affect how I showed up in my work life, friendships and even with my family. I had also just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again.
Through doing this work I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour, as I was able to identify and avoid partners that were not suitable for me, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.
I'm now married to the man of my dreams – which is huge, because I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before!
AMY, 41
Before joining AOA I was feeling intimidated by dating as my previous relationship was abusive and I hadn’t dated anyone seriously for six years. While I had done my healing in therapy, I lacked confidence in dating and was terrified of picking the wrong person again.
I found this program helped me to understand how to show up and be the best version of myself. It also taught me wonderful strategies for handling different dating situations, how to recognise potential high-quality partners and how to pace relationships for success so a strong emotional connection can develop. This has given me loads of confidence in dating!
Choosing to do AOA has been the best money I’ve ever spent on investing in myself and my future! Initially I was worried it was too much to spend on myself, but after the first lesson, it just confirmed that I had made the right decision.
Margaret, 72
Before I started this work, I was always seeming to be attracted to men who were unavailable. Since working with Jiveny, I’ve been fortunate to meet a lovely, healthy and available man who is genuinely interested in me and in sharing the next chapters of our lives together. He ticks all of the boxes that I was looking for - he’s good at communicating and listening, secure in himself, warm, affectionate and both interesting and interested in many things. We've been together for nearly 3 years now and I can really truthfully say that this is a relationship which is so satisfying and fulfilling – more than I ever thought a relationship could be. It’s just the most extraordinary experience!
“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man.
christie, 37
Before I made the decision to join the Alchemy of Attraction, I found myself feeling bitter and jaded by the whole dating world and experience. I wanted a solid relationship but fears and insecurities kept rearing their head. I found this program really insightful. It's given me an invaluable perspective shift and renewed energy which has made me feel hopeful about dating again. If I hadn’t made the choice to do this course, I think I would have continued down a dark and bitter path becoming more and more despondent. AOA has helped me feel empowered and hopeful – after completing the course I quickly felt ready to get back out there!
Since doing this course I've felt more sure of myself and more aware of the patterns and dynamics that tend to play out in my dating experiences. I’ve also started dating a wonderful guy and have felt confident in progressing the relationship.
sheridan, 34
I was single for about 10 years before I found this work and I felt like I had lost my way. Since doing this course, I have married a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself. I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have! If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time. I also don’t think I would have been able to experience this relationship or formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment).
"If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!
Kate, 31
Before doing AOA I felt lost in the world of dating and relationships. I was battling with online dating, trying to make sense of what I was supposed to be doing and just kept thinking I was doing everything wrong. The course highlighted many habits of mine that were not serving my goals. It allowed me to understand why I made those choices and I was given practical advice so I could stop pushing the right kind of men away. Perhaps the biggest takeaway from the course was learning about the power of all 4 archetypes and why it's important to let them be seen when dating. Showing ALL of them is what is going to attract a great man - not just showing one!
AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!
stacey, 34
AOA helped me to harness my personal power and build a strong foundation for relating and developing intimacy in a healthy and sustainable way. It taught me about the many and varied ways in which I can invite certain behaviours, and attributes in men – that I am never a passive recipient in my relationships. Now I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives.
Everyone should do this course! Whether you’re ready to date, currently dating or in a relationship – I truly believe there’s something for everyone in AOA."
"I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!
