It’s time to maximise your dating strategy.
To confidently step into the dating game with purpose.
To attract AND maintain a fulfilling relationship.
And I can show you how...
The Alchemy of Attraction™️
introducing
Having to constantly build up your energy and armour to put yourself out there.
Feeling swipe fatigue and dating burnout, leading to a constant cycle of deleting then downloading the apps.
Constantly second-guessing yourself (am I giving him too many chances? Or not enough?) leaving yourself in relationship limbo.
And the persistent question in the back of your mind… should I really be doing this? Won’t real, true love, just find me? (you can blame Hollywood for that one!)
The search for love can be exhausting.
Repeating the same old habits erodes your self esteem with tiny heartbreaks, again and again.
Get clear on what you want, and find someone who shares your values.
Change your dating mindset and build your confidence.
Recognise and overcome patterns of self-sabotage.
It's time to:
You see your friends and family falling in love, making lasting connections, finding people to step confidently into the next phase of their life with and you think… Why can’t it happen for me?
Dating doesn’t have to be this way.
But dating doesn’t have to be this way.
Read that again.
You are worthy, but when you’ve been on the dating rollercoaster for a while - spinning through the highs and lows - it’s perfectly natural to want to keep your heart safe.
But when you approach dating and relationships with this strategy, you can find yourself taking totally opposite actions than those that will move you toward lasting success.
It might keep your heart safe in the short term, but doesn’t help you get what you want from life over the long term.
The right dating strategy can help you attract higher quality people and save you time, energy and unnecessary heartache.
With the right dating strategy, you can go into each new interaction with more confidence, and a more clarity around what you really want. At the same time, you’ll help men feel safe, trusted, desired and understood, which leads to a more satisfying and fulfilling relationship for you! 😉
Isn’t it time you found the love you’ve been yearning for?
(Or is it more a “keep my heart safe” strategy?)
You are worthy of lasting love, sustainable attraction, and a long term relationship.
Are you running a “get love” strategy?
The Alchemy of Attraction gives you a step-by-step framework to develop the mindset, skills and strategy to get you out of your dating rut and into a healthy, passionate and secure relationship.
Through pre-recorded content for self-paced learning, and monthly live community calls, this course will help you:
Develop your confidence in building a secure relationship and asserting healthy boundaries with confidence and grace along the way.
Gain profound insight into the hearts and minds of men as you learn how to communicate and relate to them more effectively.
Unpack and upgrade your strategy (and learn how to practically apply that strategy) so that you can get more of the love you want.
Understand how to navigate the modern dating scene with more clarity and insight.
Discover a newfound confidence in how you approach, interact and relate to men.
Together, we can build space in your life for love.
You’ll be supported by someone who has been there, done that (and written a book about it too!)
As a leading dating and attraction coach, I've helped dozens of women get clear on their boundaries, develop inner self-confidence and create a plan for welcoming good love into their lives.
Like you, one day I looked around and found myself sitting on the dating rollercoaster. I was being taken through these highs and lows, but I didn’t remember buying a ticket, and I couldn’t work out how to get off.
I began a lot of soul seeking (and education) to transform my life - finding lasting love in the process. In 2016, I decided to start my own business as a dating and attraction coach and help others build good love. I’m now a qualified life coach, and have undertaken training in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Timeline Therapy, Emotional Processing and Internal Family Systems (IFS) as well as continually being mentored by my psychiatrist and relationship-therapist father. In fact, we even wrote a book together called: How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life.
If you're ready to gain a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships that greatly boosts your chances of falling in love (and staying in love) then I can help you.
Hey, I'm Jiveny, a dating & attraction coach for women. Together, we can build space in your life for love.
Meet your teacher
Forget endlessly swiping right for new matches. Instead, I'll show you how to identify your relationship strategy, see where you're going wrong, and adapt your approach to dating in a way that feels natural and empowering.
The Alchemy of Attraction dating and relationship course is free of pick-up lines, manipulation and sleazy dating tactics.
I won't ask you to act a certain way around men or change yourself to get a man.
The confidence you'll learn in this course goes far beyond relationships. It’s an investment in yourself, the confidence you bring to each day, and the satisfaction you get to enjoy for the rest of your life.
Sheridan, 34
I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and I felt like I had lost my way.
Since doing this course, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. After 3 years of dating, we’re now married and parents to a beautiful baby girl!
If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time. I don’t think I would have formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment) and I think if I had met my partner at the time having NOT done this work, it would have been a different outcome.
"If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then doing AOA is an absolute must!
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results that go far beyond dating...
Lifetime course access - jump in for a refresher any time! This includes any future improvements to the course.
An online community connecting you with other women on a similar journey. Share stories and lift each other up!
Practical exercises and external resources to transform strategy into action.
Monthly live group Q&A sessions (with me) where I can answer your questions, discuss your challenges, and support your individual dating and relationship journey.
A full run-down on the archetypes of attraction, and how you can use them to hack your dating strategy. Think of this as a diagnostic tool for how you approach dating and relationships.
5 modules of pre-recorded lessons and activities. Learn week-by-week or tackle them at your own pace.
When you join The Alchemy of Attraction, you get 9 weeks of pre-recorded video and audio content including all future course updates. Life is unpredictable, and I want you to be able to come back to these foundations whenever and however you need.
What's Included?
If you’re the kind of person who learns best by watching videos, taking notes, and completing worksheets, great! The Alchemy of Attraction has you covered. But, if learning on the go — while you’re driving, cooking, cleaning, exercising, and going about your day — is more your style, rest assured there’s a podcast-style option for you too.
In short, the course is designed so you can take what you need, when you need it, safe in the knowledge the tools are there for you to dive in deeper anywhere along the journey.
Here’s what you get:
Unpack the foundations of a healthy relationship and get clear on the qualities of a high value man
Gain clarity as you identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and how to fix it
Discover the 4 archetypes of feminine attraction; each archetype symbolises the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate and secure, relationship
Learn about sustainable attraction dynamics and harness the power of an effective dating strategy
Week One: A Fresh Perspective on Dating
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Take action and develop your experience with practical exercises that anchor this wisdom in the real world
Learn the skillset of healthy boundaries and feel stronger when it comes to asserting them clearly without pushing men away
Clarify your relationship vision and asses previous dating strategies that no longer serve you so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people
Get stuck into the lessons of your first archetype; learn about her superpowers and understand her shadow sides
Weeks 2 & 3: Clarifying Your Vision & Expressing Healthy Boundaries
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Learn how to let someone in and build a strong emotional connection without scaring them away
Discover the value of empowered vulnerability as you understand and improve your relationship to men
Explore the negative beliefs you may have about men that are holding you back from making a strong connection
Meet your 2nd archetype. Get to know her lessons and understand her shadow sides
Weeks 4 & 5: Healing Old Wounds & Empowered Vulnerability
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Get in the drivers seat and set the pace of a new relationship as you consciously build an intimate connection
Learn the two most important ingredients for successful flirting and how to express these qualities naturally while dating
Discover how to radiate self-confidence as you reconnect with your inner-seductress to create magnetic attraction
Meet your 3rd archetype; the Siren and learn how she captivates and attracts quality men
Weeks 6 & 7: Becoming Magnetic & The Art of Seduction
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Connect with your own relationship wisdom and solidify your new dating strategy in the real world
Integrate the tools to stay connected to your individuality while you navigate a new relationship
Learn to understand and relate to men on a deeper level that makes them see you as real, 'life partner' material
Meet your final archetype, uncover her shadow sides and embody her key lessons for creating sustainable attraction
Weeks 8 & 9: Embodying True Relationship Wisdom
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Hear what Stacey, 34, had to say about The Alchemy of Attraction.
Don't just take my word for it,
You'll be joining a safe community of women who share your hopes and dreams for the future.
Together, we will support each other while we do the deep inner work required to shift our relationship mindsets.
It's a dating course for women with a safe space to share and celebrate.
But nothing is forced:
you can share and be vulnerable
or you can sit back, listen and absorb at your own pace
No matter how little or how much you contribute, you will get the support you need and interact in a way that is unashamedly you.
With 9 weeks of online content and ongoing live monthly community calls with me, this tailored program will transform your love life for the better.
This is not a go-it-alone relationship course
All the support you need!
these are direct quotes from the aoa feedback form!
“I’ve taken the step to start dating again and am finding my self confidence to put myself out there since my relationship break up last year. This is huge for me!”
“I feel more confident in my ability to attract a compatible mate, and I also feel more confident in the whole dating process.”
“I feel more confident in myself and the way I can show up in my relationship. It has restored faith in me that I can evolve and has helped me become more aware of myself in relationship than ever before.”
Get results like these past participants of The Alchemy of Attraction:
The Alchemy of Attraction walks you through my proven, four-part framework for understanding yourself better, getting clear on what you want, and building your confidence in dating and relationships.
It will take you from feeling stuck in your love life and unable to attract a quality partner, to easily and consistently attracting good men who value who you are and are willing to pursue you for commitment. This puts you in the driver's seat of your love life so that you can choose the right partner for yourself and co-create the family/lifestyle you have always wanted.
Are you ready to transform your love life and wave goodbye to dating turmoil?
And now it's your turn!
Lauren, 33
Before working with Jiveny I felt insecure in myself and unsure how to find and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. I saw this affect how I showed up in my work life, friendships and even with my family. I had also just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again.
After working with Jiveny I now understand what a healthy relationship looks and feels like, and I'm aware of the patterns and insecurities I can bring into them. I found the content she teaches in The Alchemy of Attraction easy, enjoyable, thought-provoking and transformative. It highlighted so many different aspects that I had never really thought about or realised when it came to dating and attracting a partner.
Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! If you’re thinking about working with Jiveny or joining this course, I say ‘Do it!’
I found the content Jiveny Teaches in The Alchemy of Attraction easy, enjoyable, thought-provoking and transformative.
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REVIEWS FROM PAST STUDENTS
Q&A sessions allow you to ask any extra questions that come up as you work through the course and ensure we're all on the same page.
All sessions will be recorded so if you can't make the live call, you'll have access to the recording to review at your own pace.
Exclusive access to your teacher (that's me!) through regular live group Q&A calls
Not only will you have access to this round of the course, but you'll also be able to participate in future rounds and get all future updates.
Put everything you learn in this course into practice. With practical exercises and external resources this course is designed to support you in making this knowledge real!
A tools and resources hub (and phone app) to help you stay on track and implement your learnings so you can:
Connect and share your experiences with the other students in this course via the online community portal.
Join me live or work through the modules at your own pace. Either way the content is all yours to discover and revisit at any time!
A unique online experience including self-paced classes and a community of like-minded women:
Learn how to communicate and relate to men more effectively so you can take control of your love life and expand your dating options.
Develop a solid understanding of how to navigate the modern dating scene with clarity and insight as we unpack and redesign your dating strategy.
This is a no fluff approach with practical advice divided into weekly lessons that help you:
The Alchemy of Attraction dating & relationship course isn't like other courses out there
your questions answered
Frequently Asked Questions:
If you haven’t signed up already - I can only imagine it's because you’re worried about making a bad decision. And I get it, AOA isn’t for everyone.
To be clear, AOA is NOT for people who:
❌ Just want to learn about dating and relationship skills rather than actually putting things into practice
❌ Harbour a lot of anger, resentment and distrust of men and are not ready to budge in those views
❌ Aren’t willing to take responsibility for their results
❌ Refuse to take risks and step outside of their comfort zone
❌ Have deep-seated issues regarding relationships.
(In which case, this course may not be the sole solution as additional therapy, counselling or psychological support may be necessary. While I have helped people recovering from trauma, they need to truly put it behind them first in order to get the most out of this course.)
Outside of that, If you're looking to rapidly grow your dating confidence and learn the skillset of healthy relationship building - AOA was made for you!
Plus, The Alchemy of Attraction comes with a 14-day ‘do the work money-back guarantee!
That means if you do the first two weeks of the course and don’t feel like AOA is giving you the strategy, and support you need to make the most of your dating life, just email me at support@datingforlove.com and I’ll give you your money back.
That’s how sure I am that this course will transform your love life for the better! 😉
"What if the course doesn’t work for me?"
There are two ways you can do this, either submit a question through the course portal and I'll get back to you via email, or join me for one of the regular group Q&A sessions, where I'll answer you live during the online call.
"How can I contact you with questions during the course?"
Truth is, I have too. But, I’ve also purchased courses that have changed my life for the better. Courses that I still find myself going back to from time to time because there is just SO much value in there!
As an ‘online course connoisseur’ myself, I’ve put a lot of thought and energy into making this the latter type of course, as well as the kind of course that doesn’t feel too overwhelming to begin, or too heavy to follow-through.
Truth is, not many of us have the time to sit down and watch an hour of video content every week, but most of us absolutely have the capacity (and motivation!) to learn on the go, podcast-style. That’s exactly why every module in AOA is available in both video and audio form — so it fits in with your day-to-day life, in a way that makes you far more likely to get started, get finished, and get results.
On top of that, AOA is a program you’ll come back to for years and years. Because there's so much relationship wisdom packed in there you'll find new, relevant insights for each stage of dating and relationship building.
And with access to all future updates, there will always be something new for you to explore.
(Many of my previous students have told me they got so much out of it the first time, they've since gone back and worked through it again and again!)
This is why I’m giving you lifetime access.
"I’ve bought courses in the past and never finished them. I’m worried this will be the same."
It's up to you whether or not you want to join the live calls or not and how much (if at all!) you choose to contribute. FYI all the core content is pre-recorded - I've just added the monthly live calls for those who want the extra connection.
Many students enjoy the social interaction that comes with the AOA community, but as an introvert myself, I totally get it if you want to hang back and work through the course at your own pace!
Long story short: sharing is absolutely optional.
Even if you share nothing at all, you can still get epic results from the course content and you may even learn a thing or too from listening to the other students along the way. 😉
"I'm nervous about sharing my relationship history. How much do I need to share with you and the group?"
You're perfect for this course if you are:
✅ A woman interested in building a great relationship with a man
(This course is purely focused on helping women to understand attraction and relate to men better. If you are interested in an LGTBQI+ relationship course, I will be working on other versions of this course in the future and would love to hear from you!)
✅ Wanting to avoid repeating your previous mistakes in relationships and approach new situations with confidence, clarity and self-awareness
✅ Sick of attracting people you don’t fancy much yourself (while struggling to get the interest of men you really like)
✅ Or wanting to take an existing relationship to a deeper level and experience the kind of intimacy and connection many married people don't even get to experience
✅ Ready to trust your inner guides, develop your dating wisdom and stop the second-guessing.
✅ Open to new ways of connecting and communicating with men
✅ Ready to set healthier boundaries to support and protect your future goals and dreams
✅ Over the un-necessary heartache that comes with trying to figure everything out on your own
✅ Looking for more than a casual hookup (they're fine, but not what this course is about)
✅ Not mucking around - you want to take action and welcome love into your life, fast!
If you tick any of these boxes, it’s time to stop going at it alone!
Let me help you step closer to the real deal: a breathtaking, bare-knuckle thrill ride that is true and lasting love.
"How do I know if I'm right for AoA?"
It depends. If you have deep-seated issues regarding relationships, this course may not be the solution. Professional therapy, counselling or psychological support may be necessary as well. While I have helped people recovering from relationship trauma, they need to truly put it behind them first in order to be ready to complete this course.
On the other hand, if you are frustrated with your old dating habits and ready to claim your confidence and find a new way to attract love, then you, my friend, are totally ready! 😉
"Am I really ready to do this course?"
Yes! You get to keep all the recordings and worksheets as well as access to all future course updates as they are released. Better yet, purchasing this round means you get all the present and future value at the best possible price, as course prices may increase the next time I offer this course.
"Do I get lifetime access to this course?"
The course is designed for you to take at your own pace, and engage with in a way that works best for you.
For some people, this will mean putting aside around 90 mins each week to work through the content and worksheets…
For others it will mean approaching the modules more casually (like a podcast with 30-60 minutes of listen-time a week) and listening as you go about your day-to-day life e.g. while you’re driving, at the gym, washing up, walking the dog, or on the bus to work etc.
Either way, I’ve purposefully designed this course so it’s easy for you to get started, get finished, and get results.
All you’ve got to do is take the first step.
Join The Alchemy of Attraction now, and let’s get started!
"How much time will the course take each week?"
It really depends on your budget... My 1:1 coaching packages start at $6,000 which include this AOA course, because it really makes up your foundation for success. I rely on this program to provide you with the core dating and relationship skills (so I don’t have to repeat myself), which frees up any 1:1 time to workshop any specific issues you may be facing.
With that in mind, I only take on 1:1 clients who are willing to make a minimum 3 month commitment so that we can work intensively together. As I only have space for a few clients at a time, places aren't always available and when they are, they often fill quickly.
(Pro tip, if you sign up for the course and decide you want some ad-hoc 1:1 coaching too, this can be arranged for $375 per session - depending on my availability. Please email me once you have joined the program, if you would like to discuss this option.)
Note, The Alchemy of Attraction also comes with live monthly support calls, so there’s always an opportunity to ask a question, get advice, or share updates in real time! While it’s not 1:1 support, you do get the benefits of being part of a group of like-minded women, many of whom have similar experiences to you. In other words, it’s a great place to feel seen and understood.
Having said that, if you think you’d get more out of ongoing 1:1 support, and are willing to invest accordingly, you can apply for 1:1 coaching here.
"Might 1:1 coaching be a better fit?"
So many of my clients have this same challenge when we first start working together!
And, having taken a few dodgy online courses myself over the years, I understand the fear that what you learn inside will be hard to translate into real life.
That’s why so much of The Alchemy of Attraction is about understanding yourself (and therefore your actions), and building your confidence when it comes to men and dating.
In the words of one of our past students, Kate, 31:
“AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It makes you question yourself and what you are doing in a way that inspires you to make changes for the better. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!”
“Opening up and letting people in is my biggest struggle… and I’m unsure how an online course can help with this??”
Trust me, I’ve heard that one more than a few times, which is why I love to talk about Margaret...
Margaret first reached out to work with me when she was 69. By then she knew she wanted to try dating again but she worried, “I’m too old!”
Now 72, Margaret has completed the AOA course twice and is now in a healthy, happy relationship with a man she adores (it’s been 2 years and counting!). See what she has to say here.
“Am I too old for this? I feel like I’m in a different bracket to the people you normally work with.”
Absolutely not! If you are, that’s great, because you can start putting everything you learn into practice as you go along.
But, if you’re not feeling ready to date yet, that’s fine too!
The reality is, it's never too early to start building your dating knowledge and practising the skills of healthy relationship building.
Because the course helps you get real-world clarity around what you want in a relationship and what’s got in your way in the past, along with the confidence to start putting yourself out there, it’s a great way to prepare yourself for getting back in the game.
Either way, this course will help you to avoid unnecessary heartbreak and get into a satisfying relationship much faster than you would if you were going at it alone.
The bottom line is, you don't need to ‘get ready’ for The Alchemy of Attraction,
The Alchemy of Attraction is what gets you ready for success in your dating life.
Have a look at the testimonials throughout this page if you need more confirmation AOA is a fit for where you are in your dating journey.
"Do I have to be actively dating to get value out of this course?"
If you tick any of these boxes, it’s time to stop going this alone!
Let me help you step closer to the real deal: a breathtaking, bare-knuckle thrill ride that is true and lasting love.
*This course is purely focused on helping women to understand attraction and relate to men better. If you are interested in an LGTBQI+ relationship course, please email me here. I will be working on other versions of this course in the future and would love to hear from you!
Not mucking around - you want to take action and welcome love into your life, fast!
Looking for more than a casual hookup (they're fine, but not what this course is about)
Over the un-necessary heartache that comes with trying to figure everything out on your own
Ready to set healthier boundaries to support and protect your future goals and dreams
Open to new ways of connecting and communicating with men
Ready to trust your inner guides, develop your dating wisdom and stop the second-guessing.
Or wanting to take an existing relationship to a deeper level and experience the kind of intimacy and connection many married people don't even get to experience
Sick of attracting people you don’t fancy much yourself (while struggling to get the interest of men you really like)
Wanting to avoid repeating your previous mistakes in relationships and approach new situations with confidence, clarity and self-awareness
A woman interested in building a great relationship with a man* (Looking for the Men's version of this course? Click here.)
You're perfect for this course if you are:
It's time to decide
Only you can make that decision - but it is possible to have both!
All of my VIP coaching clients also get access to the Alchemy of Attraction course material, and the Q&A calls.
Learn more about VIP coaching, and then make an enquiry, and I can talk you through your decision.
Is it better to invest in this course or 1 on 1 Coaching?
The Alchemy of Attraction comes with a 14 day ‘do the work’ money-back guarantee.
Your guarantee:
If you don’t feel like AOA is giving you the skills, strategy, and support you need to attract a quality partner, just email support@datingforlove.com within 14 days of purchase and I’ll give you your money back.
All you have to do is complete the first two modules, and show me that you’ve done your homework -- I’m that certain this will work for you!
A partner who absolutely adores you. Someone who actually puts effort into moving things forward and building an epic life with you!
The tools to get (and stay) in the driver's seat of your love life, where you set the pace and date men who are committed to bringing their best to a relationship.
The skills to transform hookups into boyfriends (but only if you want to!) Have quality men pursuing you for a committed relationship so that you can take your pick!
A dating/relationship strategy that actually works, and helps you to create a strong foundation of love from the beginning.
Clarity and confidence when it comes to approaching the dating scene.
It's your choice
Are you ready for real results like…
Or, are you happy to stay on the dating rollercoaster?
If you’re looking for something to change, you need to change too. The Alchemy of Attraction might just be the catalyst for that transformation.
Amy, 41
Before joining AOA I was feeling intimidated by dating as my previous relationship was abusive and I hadn’t dated anyone seriously for six years. While I had done my healing in therapy, I lacked confidence in dating and was terrified of picking the wrong person again.
Not having the confidence in this area of my life also meant that I was missing (and even turning down) good opportunities to meet a partner. This left me feeling like I was behind in life and not where I wanted to be.
I found this program helped me to understand how to show up and be the best version of myself. It also taught me wonderful strategies for handling different dating situations, how to recognise potential high-quality partners and how to pace relationships for success so a strong emotional connection can develop. This has given me loads of confidence in dating!
The biggest insight I got from this course was learning about the male and female archetypes and their shadows sides - this information made me realize where my behaviours needed to change so that I could show up as my best self.
The Alchemy of Attraction has given me so much confidence to be myself, to understand men better and make the most of dating. Jiveny is also a fabulous teacher and it was loads of fun doing this as part of the AOA community, with other women sharing their experiences and insights.
Choosing to do AOA has been the best money I’ve ever spent on investing in myself and my future! Initially I was worried it was too much to spend on myself, but after the first lesson, it just confirmed that I had made the right decision.
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RESULTS THAT GO FAR BEYOND DATING...
KATE, 31
Before doing AOA I felt lost in the world of dating and relationships. I was battling with online dating, trying to make sense of what I was supposed to be doing and just kept thinking I was doing everything wrong as I was not finding good matches.
The course highlighted many habits of mine that were not serving any purpose in reaching my goal of finding a relationship. It allowed me to understand why I made those choices and I was given practical advice of how to change the habits so that I do not push the right kind of men away.
Since doing AOA I have come to understand men better and my thoughts and feelings towards them have shifted considerably. I used to feel intimidated and a little scared by men and now I can see them as people, just like me, that I can enjoy having fun with.
Perhaps the biggest takeaway from the course was learning about the power of all 4 archetypes and why it's important to let them be seen when dating. Showing ALL of them is what is going to attract a great man - not just showing one!
If I hadn’t made the choice to do this course, I think I would have continued to make the same mistakes as before. I would have stayed scared and fed up with dating. I would be in the same mindset of “what am I doing wrong?” and not have made any changes. I would just be stuck in the same old patterns, getting nowhere.
AOA is the best personal growth course that I have ever done. It gives you the practical tools you need to build strong relationships in every sphere of your life. You will finish the course feeling like the most amazing woman ever!
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RESULTS THAT GO FAR BEYOND DATING...
My father (a psychiatrist and relationship therapist) and I wrote this book to help people more carefully consider the choice of choosing a life partner. It unpacks what to be looking at and exploring with a potential suitor.
In this course, I’ll be taking these insights to the next level by exploring how we can maximise our own feminine gifts and understand men on a deeper level.
It’s about improving your dating strategy to more easily attract a quality partner and build a secure and passionate long-term relationship from the start.
Regardless of whether you've read our book or not, this course will set you up for relationships success by multiplying your options. Then you can read our book to figure out who to choose!
Then, this is your next step!
Already read How to Make The Biggest Decision of your Life?
Margaret, 73
When I first approached Jiveny, I was very fearful that she would not be interested in me because of my age and my, as I saw it then, failure to establish a successful relationship with a man. But, I was so wrong! From the very beginning, Jiveny was warm, welcoming, perceptive and so, so supportive and positive.
Doing AOA and exploring the different but complementary aspects of the Feminine has been a fascinating journey. Using Jiveny’s ideas and exercises to explore the essence of these archetypes within myself has developed a deepened awareness of my feminine nature and the archetypal energies which underpin and facilitate connection and attraction between men and women.
Since doing the course I’ve been fortunate to meet a lovely, healthy and available man who is genuinely interested in me and in sharing the next chapters of our lives together. We've been together for nearly 3 years now and I can really, truthfully say that this is a relationship which is so satisfying and fulfilling – more than I ever thought a relationship could be!
“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man. This is a relationship which is so satisfying & fulfilling - more than I ever thought it could be!”
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Stacey, 34
Most of us have not learnt how to date ‘well’ or with clarity or intention. As they say: luck is not a strategy!
Between therapy and talking about your dates with your friends, there is an important but untapped space. AOA fills this gap, empowering you to tackle the often confusing world of dating and relating with insight and intention. The course equips you with a different kind of confidence and poise that comes from having a handle on some fundamental relationship truths and wisdom.
Learning about the archetypes of empowered feminine energy and what it means to be an ‘integrated’ woman is ground-breaking. Not just for my way of relating within my relationship, but within myself and relating to the world at large.
Overall, AOA helped me to harness my personal power and build a strong foundation for relating and developing intimacy in a healthy and sustainable way. It taught me about the many and varied ways in which I can invite certain behaviours, and attributes in men – that I am never a passive recipient in my relationships.
Now I'm in a relationship and I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. I am also getting more comfortable with letting my partner ‘lead’, though it’s still a work in progress!
Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives; that we are methodically exploring the right and important ‘big questions’ around values, goals and our life journey together.
Everyone should do this course! Whether you’re ready to date, currently dating or in a relationship – I truly believe there’s something for everyone in AOA.
I credit The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with my now husband who is literally the man of my dreams!
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CHRISTIE, 37
Before I made the decision to join the Alchemy of Attraction, I found myself feeling bitter and jaded by the whole dating world and experience. I wanted a solid relationship but fears and insecurities kept rearing their head.
I found this program really insightful. It's given me an invaluable perspective shift and renewed energy which has made me feel hopeful about dating again. The most memorable insight from this work has been learning about the archetypes and how they all come together to assist with dating and building healthy relationships.
Since doing this course I've felt more sure of myself and more aware of the patterns and dynamics that tend to play out in my dating experiences. I’ve also started dating a wonderful guy and have felt confident in progressing the relationship. We’ve been together for 4 months at the time of writing this and he’s the embodiment of everything I wanted in a partner.
If I hadn’t made the choice to do this course, I think I would have continued down a dark and bitter path becoming more and more despondent. AOA has helped me feel empowered and hopeful – after completing the course I quickly felt ready to get back out there!
If you’re thinking about joining The Alchemy of Attraction, I say, do it! It will help you to understand yourself, men and relationships better. It will also help you to unpack the patterns, habits and fears that may be holding you back from finding success with dating, and ultimately, your happiness.
Since doing this course I've felt more sure of myself and more aware of the patterns and dynamics that tend to play out in my dating experiences. I’ve also started dating a wonderful guy and have felt confident in progressing the relationship.
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