A part of you is aware that time is ticking. You wonder when your turn will come. Or the scarier thought, what if time runs out and you never get to meet your match?
You swear off dating apps, only to get back on them again weeks later. Or you just find yourself 'too busy' concentrating on other goals to take proper steps towards letting new love into your life.
You find yourself sticking to old habits in your love life but sometimes worry your approach is all wrong and you're making the same mistakes again and again.
I remember dating in the dark ages - without the knowledge or experience to create a truly nourishing and stable relationship with a man... Investing in someone only to get let down and hurt... Falling in love but plagued with the insecurity that he still might leave me for another... Wondering if "true love" even exists or was it just some twisted fantasy we're all blindly chasing?
Yep, I’ve had my share of disappointments out on the dating scene. In fact, it took me years to figure out how to navigate this tricky space and actually create a healthy, secure and committed relationship with a man. There is just so much I wish I knew before that could have saved me a LOT of emotional turmoil and heartache along the way.
If you're ready to gain a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships that greatly boosts your chances of falling in love (and staying in love), then I can help you.
Ready to set healthier boundaries to support and protect your future goals and dreams
Over the un-necessary heartache that comes with trying to figure everything out on your own
Not mucking around - you want to take action and welcome love into your life, fast!
Looking for more than a casual hookup (they're fine, but not what this course is about)
Ready for the real deal: a breathtaking, bare-knuckle thrill ride that is true and lasting love
A woman interested in building a great relationship with a man*
Wanting to avoid repeating your previous mistakes in relationships
Sick of attracting people you don’t fancy much yourself (while struggling to get the interest of men you really like)
Or wanting to take an existing relationship to a deeper level and experience the kind of intimacy and connection many married women don't even get to experience
Ready to trust your inner guides and develop your dating wisdom
Open to new ways of connecting and communicating with men
*This course is purely focused on helping women to understand attraction and relate to men better. If you are interested in an LGTBQI+ relationship course or are a male seeking to understand attraction and relate to women better, please email me here. I will be working on other versions of this course in the future and would love to hear from you!
Live Q&A sessions (with me) to make sure we're all on the same page
An online community connecting you with other women on a similar journey
Lifetime course access - jump in for a refresher any time!
9 weeks of valuable dating insights, with audio, video and written materials to support your learning
Four archetypes to illustrate your dating journey
Practical exercises and external resources to make this knowledge real
Before doing AOA I felt lost in the world of dating and relationships. I was battling with online dating, trying to make sense of what I was supposed to be doing and just kept thinking I was doing everything wrong as I was not finding good matches.
The course highlighted many habits of mine that were not serving any purpose in reaching my goal of finding a relationship. It allowed me to understand why I made those choices and I was given practical advice of how to change the habits so that I do not push the right kind of men away.
Since doing AOA I have come to understand men better and my thoughts and feelings towards them have shifted considerably. I used to feel intimidated and a little scared by men and now I can see them as people, just like me, that I can enjoy having fun with.
Perhaps the biggest takeaway from the course was learning about the power of all 4 archetypes and why it's important to let them be seen when dating. Showing ALL of them is what is going to attract a great man - not just showing one!
If I hadn’t made the choice to do this course, I think I would have continued to make the same mistakes as before. I would have stayed scared and fed up with dating. I would be in the same mindset of “what am I doing wrong?” and not have made any changes. I would just be stuck in the same old patterns, getting nowhere.
If you're ready to gain a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships that greatly boosts your chances of falling in love (and staying in love), then I can help you.
As a leading dating & attraction coach, I've helped dozens of women get clear on their boundaries, develop inner self-confidence and create a plan for welcoming good love into their lives.
You're a great fit for this dating & relationship course if you love the idea of joining a group of like-minded women, and are ready to make lasting change.
Forget endlessly swiping right for new matches. Instead, I'll show you how to identify your relationship strategy, see where you're going wrong and adapt your approach to dating in a way that feels natural and empowering.
Discover a newfound confidence in how you approach, interact and relate to men
Uncover a solid understanding of how to navigate the modern dating scene with more clarity and insight
Unpack and upgrade your strategy so that you can get more of the love you want
Gain profound insight into the hearts and minds of men as you learn how to communicate and relate to them more effectively
Develop your confidence in building a secure relationship and asserting healthy boundaries with confidence and grace along the way
Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I was also in these relationships for the wrong reasons so I guess they were destined to fail.
I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships. She was able to help me to open myself to what I really wanted and let go of what wasn’t working.
I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. Applying the things I learned from Jiveny to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way.
We’ve been together for four years now and have one-year-old twin baby girls. My partner is loyal beyond words - this was something I haven’t really ever been able to say before. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father.
If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have been caught in the cycle of dating and getting in too deep with someone who wasn’t really a great match for me. Someone who I may have settled for because they wanted me, or met a particular need at the time, but would not be a good partner for me in the long term.
My father (a psychiatrist and relationship therapist) and I wrote this book to help people more carefully consider the choice of choosing a life partner. It unpacks what to be looking at and exploring with a potential suitor.
In this course, I’ll be taking these insights to the next level by exploring how we can maximise our own feminine gifts and understand men on a deeper level.
It’s about improving your dating strategy to more easily attract a quality partner and build a secure and passionate long-term relationship from the start.
Regardless of whether you've read our book or not, this course will set you up for relationships success by multiplying your options. Then you can read our book to figure out who to choose!
Most of us have not learnt how to date ‘well’ or with clarity or intention. As they say: luck is not a strategy!
Between therapy and talking about your dates with your friends, there is an important but untapped space. AOA fills this gap, empowering you to tackle the often confusing world of dating and relating with insight and intention. The course equips you with a different kind of confidence and poise that comes from having a handle on some fundamental relationship truths and wisdom.
Learning about the archetypes of empowered feminine energy and what it means to be an ‘integrated’ woman is ground-breaking. Not just for my way of relating within my relationship, but within myself and relating to the world at large.
Overall, AOA helped me to harness my personal power and build a strong foundation for relating and developing intimacy in a healthy and sustainable way. It taught me about the many and varied ways in which I can invite certain behaviours, and attributes in men – that I am never a passive recipient in my relationships.
Now I'm in a relationship and I don’t second guess my partner’s interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. I am also getting more comfortable with letting my partner ‘lead’, though it’s still a work in progress!
Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives; that we are methodically exploring the right and important ‘big questions’ around values, goals and our life journey together.
Everyone should do this course! Whether you’re ready to date, currently dating or in a relationship – I truly believe there’s something for everyone in AOA.
What if, somewhere along the way, things got messy? You followed so much advice about how to behave, you forgot your own heart? You started to doubt your own instincts and your confidence crumbled.
Perhaps you fell hard for someone and desperately tried to keep them. Or perhaps you have a strong fear of heartbreak, so you've never let anyone get too close. Now time is ticking by and you're worried that love just isn't in your future.
I believe you can attract love into your life. Successful dating for women all starts with knowing yourself, and tapping into your inner archetypes.
They're all there within you, just waiting to be actualised. Let me show you how with the Alchemy of Attraction relationship course for women.
Discover the 4 archetypes of feminine attraction to embody the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate secure, long-term relationship.
Identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and what you need to do to present yourself as a very desirable partner to high quality, eligible men.
Refine your relationship vision and learn to develop healthy boundaries so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people.
Learn the art of empowered vulnerability; how to let people in and build a strong emotional connection without scaring good men away.
Develop a dating strategy that actually gets you the love you want. Learn the subtle art of pacing so that you don't sabotage or rush a relationship.
Gain clarity as you identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and how to fix it
Unpack the foundations of a healthy relationship and get clear on the qualities of a high value man
Learn about sustainable attraction dynamics and harness the power of an effective dating strategy
Discover the 4 archetypes of feminine attraction; each archetype symbolises the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate and secure, relationship
Learn the skillset of healthy boundaries and feel stronger when it comes to asserting them clearly without pushing men away
Take action and develop your experience with practical exercises that anchor this wisdom in the real world
Get stuck into the lessons of your first archetype; learn about her superpowers and understand her shadow sides
Clarify your relationship vision and asses previous dating strategies that no longer serve you so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people
Discover the value of empowered vulnerability as you understand and improve your relationship to men
Learn how to let someone in and build a strong emotional connection without scaring them away
Meet your second archetype. Get to know her lessons and understand her shadow sides
Explore the negative beliefs you may have about men that are holding you back from making a strong connection
Learn how to make the most of the opportunities in your day-to-day life to meet new people
Get in the drivers seat and set the pace of a new relationship as you build the connection
Meet your third archetype; the Siren and learn how she captivates and attracts quality men
Discover how to radiate self confidence and facilitate magnetic attraction through successful flirting techniques
Integrate the tools to stay connected to your individuality while you navigate a new relationship
Connect with your own relationship wisdom and solidify your new dating strategy in the real world
Meet your final archetype, uncover her shadow sides and embody her key lessons for creating sustainable attraction
Learn to understand and relate to men on a deeper level that makes them see you as real, 'life partner' material
You'll be joining a safe community of women who share your hopes and dreams for the future.
Together, we will support each other while we do the deep inner work required to shift our relationship mindsets.
It's a dating course for women with a safe space to share and celebrate.
But nothing is forced:
you can share and be vulnerable
or you can sit back, listen and absorb at your own pace
No matter how little or how much you contribute, you will get the support you need and interact in a way that is unashamedly you.
I deliberately limit group places so I can give everyone plenty of individual attention.
With five modules of online content AND nine group sessions with me, this tailored program will transform your love life for the better.
Before working with Jiveny I felt insecure in myself and unsure how to find and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. I saw this affect how I showed up in my work life, friendships and even with my family. I had also just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again.
After working with Jiveny I now understand what a healthy relationship looks and feels like, and I'm aware of the patterns and insecurities I can bring into them. I found the content she teaches in The Alchemy of Attraction easy, enjoyable, thought-provoking and transformative. It highlighted so many different aspects that I had never really thought about or realised when it came to dating and attracting a partner.
Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! If you’re thinking about working with Jiveny or joining this course, I say ‘Do it!’
The Alchemy of Attraction walks you through my proven, four-part framework. It will take you from feeling stuck in your love life and unable to attract a quality partner, to easily and consistently attracting good men who value who you are and are willing to pursue you for commitment. This puts you in the diver’s seat of your love life so that you can choose the right partner for yourself and co-create the family/lifestyle you have always wanted.
When I first approached Jiveny, I was very fearful that she would not be interested in me because of my age and my, as I saw it then, failure to establish a successful relationship with a man. But, I was so wrong! From the very beginning, Jiveny was warm, welcoming, perceptive and so, so supportive and positive.
Exploring the different but complementary aspects of the Feminine has been a fascinating journey. Using Jiveny’s ideas and exercises to explore the essence of these archetypes within myself has developed a deepened awareness of my feminine nature and the Archetypal energies which underpin and facilitate connection and attraction between men and women.
Since doing the course I’ve been fortunate to meet a lovely, healthy and available man who is genuinely interested in me and in sharing the next chapters of our lives together. We've now been dating for 1 year at the time of writing this.
Develop a solid understanding of how to navigate the modern dating scene with clarity and insight as we unpack and redesign your dating strategy.
Learn how to communicate and relate to men more effectively as you take control of your love life and expand your dating options.
Join me live or work through the modules at your own pace. Either way the content is all yours to discover and revisit at any time!
Connect and share your experiences with the other students in this course via the online community portal.
Put everything you learn in this course into practice. With practical exercises and external resources this course is designed to support you in making this knowledge real!
Not only will you have access to this round of the course, but you'll also be able to access all future updates.
All Zoom sessions will be recorded so if you can't make the live call, you'll have access to the recording to review at your own pace.
Q&A sessions allow you to ask any extra questions that come up as you work through the course and ensure we're all on the same page.
To get the best from your investment, I suggest you allow 60-90 mins for the live training calls and 30-60 minutes during the week to complete your tasking. FYI, the assignments I set you won't be like school homework! They're all fun, practical exercises designed to support you with challenging your thinking about men, relationships, love and attraction.
Yes! You get to keep all the recordings and worksheets as well as access to all future course updates as they are released. Better yet, purchasing this round means you get all the present and future value at the best possible price, as course prices will increase the next time I offer this course.
It depends. If you have deep-seated issues regarding relationships, this course may not be the solution. Professional therapy, counselling or psychological support may be necessary as well. While I have helped people recovering from relationship trauma, they need to truly put it behind them first in order to be ready to complete this course.
On the other hand, if you are frustrated with your old dating habits and ready to claim your confidence and find a new way to attract love, then you, my friend, are totally ready.
The live calls will be (AEST):
Week 1: Tuesday 5/04 @ 6:15pm
Week 2: Tuesday 12/04 @ 6:15pm
Week 3: Tuesday 19/04 @ 6:15pm
Week 4: Tuesday 26/04 @ 6:15pm
Week 5: Tuesday 03/05 @ 6:15pm
Week 6: Thursday 12/05 @ 6:15pm
Week 7: Tuesday 17/05 @ 6:15pm
Week 8: Tuesday 24/05 @ 6:15pm
Week 9: Tuesday 31/05 @ 6:15pm
Even if you can’t make some or any of the live calls, you’ll still get ongoing access to the video recordings to watch the replay at a later time so that you can work through the course at your own pace. You'll also have the opportunity to ask me any questions as you review the videos via the online forum.
The calls will be scheduled via Zoom. When you register for the course you will get a calendar invitation to add all the calls to your calendar at once.
After each call you'll get access to both a video and audio recording of the session, plus all the slides and resources covered in that lesson.
There is a facebook group for all AOA alumni, however it is not necessary to do this course. All you need to access and participate in this course will be hosted within the course portal.
I encourage you to ask questions as the course unfolds. You can do this either live, in the Zoom chat while we are on a live call or between sessions by submitting your questions in the community forum. These questions will then either be answered online via the course platform, by email or with a video posted within the FB group.
Of course! If you feel you want additional one-to-one support from me, you can enquire here to find out about my next availability for coaching calls and I will do my best to give preference to AOA students.
Yes, this course has a 14-day do the work money-back guarantee which means:
If you don’t feel like AOA is giving you the skills, strategy, and support you need to attract a quality partner, just email me at firstname.lastname@example.org within the first two weeks of the course starting, and I’ll give you your money back. The only thing you have to do is attend the first 2 calls live or watch the recordings, and show me that you've done the homework. Refunds must be requested within 14 days of the course starting. No refunds are provided after the first 14 days, and I do not provide pro-rata refunds for cancelled accounts. After the initial refund period expires, I will continue to process any remaining payments (if you have selected a payment plan option).
Clarity and confidence when it comes to approaching the dating scene.
A dating/relationship strategy that actually works, and helps you to create a strong foundation of love from the beginning.
Transform hookups into boyfriends (but only if you want to!) Have quality men pursuing you for a committed relationship so that you can take your pick!
Learn how to get (and stay) in the drivers seat of your love life. This means you get to set the pace and date men who are committed to bringing their best to a relationship.
Attract a partner who absolutely adores you. Someone who actually puts effort into moving things forward and building an epic life with you!
I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and I felt like I had lost my way. I found the content Jiveny teaches in The Alchemy of Attraction truly empowering. It helped me reconnect to my intuition and to parts of myself that had been hidden away for quite some time.
Since doing this course, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. We’ve been together for 3 years at the time of writing this.
If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time. I don’t think I would have formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment) and I think if I had met my partner at the time having NOT done this work, it would have been a different outcome.
The experience I had working with Jiveny and doing AOA was life-changing. If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then working with her and doing AOA is an absolute must!