jiveny.com

Magnetic Mentoring for Women

Secure Love.
Magnetic Power.
A Life That’s Truly Yours.

For the smart, successful woman who’s craving less pressure, more pleasure, and a deeper sense of trust in herself.

Life and relationship coaching to help you move beyond overthinking and into more ease, radiance, self-trust and feminine power.

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Become the Woman You Were Always Meant to Be

(Without Forcing Any of It)

So many women are trying to raise themselves alone - expected to know how to live, love and lead without ever being properly initiated into womanhood.

Many of us did not grow up surrounded by women who could show us how to rest without guilt, receive without apology, age without disappearing, feel our anger without burning it all down, forgive without abandoning ourselves, hold our boundaries without shutting people out, and love without making ourselves smaller.

So we became good girls.

Capable. Pleasant. Helpful. Impressive. Exhausted.

But underneath it all, something wiser is still waiting to be born.

What if the love, the life and the deeper sense of purpose you’re craving were never things you had to chase - but things you could learn to receive?

Part energetics, part strategy, part initiation.

This is where you stop white-knuckling your way through love and life, and start moving through the world with the kind of ease, clarity and magnetism that changes everything.

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01 / Meet Your Mentor

Hey, I’m Jiveny.

I’m a wife, mother, mentor, author and co-founder of Dating For Love. My work weaves together modern psychology, grounded relationship wisdom, feminine archetypes, spiritual mysticism, somatic embodiment and the deep inner work that comes from the lived initiations of womanhood.

Since 2016, I’ve worked with women from 20 to 70, supporting them to stop chasing, over-giving and second-guessing themselves, and start creating lives that feel deeply true - full of love, confidence and abundance.

This work is not theoretical for me. I live it every day in my marriage, my motherhood, my business, my spiritual practice and my own ongoing becoming.

I’m not here to fix you. I’m here to walk beside you as you remember who you are, trust your inner knowing, and become the woman you were always meant to be.

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It’s Time to Ditch…

  • Over-giving and under-receiving.
  • Being the ‘strong one’ who never asks for help.
  • Dimming your light to make others comfortable.
  • Holding everything together while quietly losing yourself.
  • Waiting for permission to be powerful.
  • Settling for ‘fine’ when you were made for extraordinary.

How to Get Started

01

Explore

Browse the courses, retreats and private mentorship pathways, and notice what speaks to where you are now.

02

Choose

Whether it’s a course, a retreat, or 1:1 coaching, trust your gut. She already knows.

03

Transform

Step into the work and begin moving through love, life and your own becoming with more trust, clarity and power.

Choose Your Path

The Initiation

The Art of Receiving

Stop working so hard for love, support and validation. A foundational deep dive for the woman ready to soften her defences, release hyper-independence, and open to receiving from grounded feminine power.

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The Transformation

1:1 Mentorship

Private coaching with Jiveny for the woman ready for deeper support in love, identity, confidence and becoming. Together, you’ll untangle old patterns, strengthen self-trust, and step into your next chapter with more clarity, courage and support.

Apply for 1:1

The Immersion

Magnetic Woman Retreats

An intimate retreat experience for the woman ready to step out of everyday life and into deeper embodiment, connection and expansion. Come home to your body, your desire and the wise woman within.

Explore Retreats

Kind Words

What Becomes Possible When You Stop Doing It All Alone

I manifested a job that I’m incredibly excited for, it exceeds what I was trying to call in! I also got hugely positive feedback from my boss AND I called in an online client for my side business.
- Sophie
Working with Jiveny has really helped me reframe the purpose of going after a desire and understand it’s not a matter of success or failure.
- Mel
I am really enjoying the journey of self discovery in receiving. I can feel the shift already. My focus is on receiving in relationships… it already feels different and relaxed and lovely.
- Matilda
I feel less hopeless and more hopeful. I think I was stuck in a scarcity mindset and forgot that there’s always abundance in the universe.
- Jennifer
The trainings have been wonderful - Jiveny, you are a very talented teacher! Super powerful for manifesting and miracle making.
- Jade
I still use the tools weekly that you taught me and tell everyone how amazing you and the course is and how much I got out of it. It has truly helped me so much.
- Laura
I am learning and practising mindsets, approaches and behaviours that are more conducive towards the relationships I want in my life. Thank you, I am finding it very valuable!
- Sarah
Having something tangible, the archetypes, to strive for has taken the weight off me zeroing in on my flaws in an unhealthy way.
- Amy
So many of us go through this journey blindly, but your book and courses give people the reflective questions they need to go into the biggest decision of their life with eyes wide open.
- Renee
After finishing my coaching with you and a while later giving up online dating, I met the most wonderful man. We married a year later in NYC. Life is great, thank you!
- Kaylene
Her guidance flipped a switch in me and I know I’ll never go back to how I was before. I’m a changed woman forever.
- Sophie
It was so helpful to have that 1:1 air time to talk about my dates, what they meant, how I’m showing up, my anxieties, what my blindspots may be and whether the men’s behaviour was high or low quality.
- Alexa
I found this work groundbreaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ of my failed relationships, and I’ve since found a lifelong partner who I’ve started a family with.
- Aisha
Learning about the archetypes and what it means to be an ‘integrated’ woman was a game-changer, not just for how I relate within my relationship, but also within myself and how I relate to the world at large.
- Stacey
Her guidance flipped a switch in me and I know I’ll never go back to how I was before. I’m a changed woman forever.
- Sophie
I see myself as a whole whereas before I only saw myself in parts. This work helped me understand the full picture of who I am and what I bring to a relationship.
- Claire
I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. I’ve felt a deeper sense of clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.
- Lynda
I manifested a job that I’m incredibly excited for, it exceeds what I was trying to call in! I also got hugely positive feedback from my boss AND I called in an online client for my side business.
- Sophie
Working with Jiveny has really helped me reframe the purpose of going after a desire and understand it’s not a matter of success or failure.
- Mel
I am really enjoying the journey of self discovery in receiving. I can feel the shift already. My focus is on receiving in relationships… it already feels different and relaxed and lovely.
- Matilda
I feel less hopeless and more hopeful. I think I was stuck in a scarcity mindset and forgot that there’s always abundance in the universe.
- Jennifer
The trainings have been wonderful - Jiveny, you are a very talented teacher! Super powerful for manifesting and miracle making.
- Jade
I still use the tools weekly that you taught me and tell everyone how amazing you and the course is and how much I got out of it. It has truly helped me so much.
- Laura
I am learning and practising mindsets, approaches and behaviours that are more conducive towards the relationships I want in my life. Thank you, I am finding it very valuable!
- Sarah
Having something tangible, the archetypes, to strive for has taken the weight off me zeroing in on my flaws in an unhealthy way.
- Amy
So many of us go through this journey blindly, but your book and courses give people the reflective questions they need to go into the biggest decision of their life with eyes wide open.
- Renee
After finishing my coaching with you and a while later giving up online dating, I met the most wonderful man. We married a year later in NYC. Life is great, thank you!
- Kaylene
Her guidance flipped a switch in me and I know I’ll never go back to how I was before. I’m a changed woman forever.
- Sophie
It was so helpful to have that 1:1 air time to talk about my dates, what they meant, how I’m showing up, my anxieties, what my blindspots may be and whether the men’s behaviour was high or low quality.
- Alexa
I found this work groundbreaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ of my failed relationships, and I’ve since found a lifelong partner who I’ve started a family with.
- Aisha
Learning about the archetypes and what it means to be an ‘integrated’ woman was a game-changer, not just for how I relate within my relationship, but also within myself and how I relate to the world at large.
- Stacey
Her guidance flipped a switch in me and I know I’ll never go back to how I was before. I’m a changed woman forever.
- Sophie
I see myself as a whole whereas before I only saw myself in parts. This work helped me understand the full picture of who I am and what I bring to a relationship.
- Claire
I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. I’ve felt a deeper sense of clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.
- Lynda
I manifested a job that I’m incredibly excited for, it exceeds what I was trying to call in! I also got hugely positive feedback from my boss AND I called in an online client for my side business.
- Sophie
Working with Jiveny has really helped me reframe the purpose of going after a desire and understand it’s not a matter of success or failure.
- Mel
I am really enjoying the journey of self discovery in receiving. I can feel the shift already. My focus is on receiving in relationships… it already feels different and relaxed and lovely.
- Matilda
I feel less hopeless and more hopeful. I think I was stuck in a scarcity mindset and forgot that there’s always abundance in the universe.
- Jennifer
The trainings have been wonderful - Jiveny, you are a very talented teacher! Super powerful for manifesting and miracle making.
- Jade
I still use the tools weekly that you taught me and tell everyone how amazing you and the course is and how much I got out of it. It has truly helped me so much.
- Laura
I am learning and practising mindsets, approaches and behaviours that are more conducive towards the relationships I want in my life. Thank you, I am finding it very valuable!
- Sarah
Having something tangible, the archetypes, to strive for has taken the weight off me zeroing in on my flaws in an unhealthy way.
- Amy
So many of us go through this journey blindly, but your book and courses give people the reflective questions they need to go into the biggest decision of their life with eyes wide open.
- Renee
After finishing my coaching with you and a while later giving up online dating, I met the most wonderful man. We married a year later in NYC. Life is great, thank you!
- Kaylene
Her guidance flipped a switch in me and I know I’ll never go back to how I was before. I’m a changed woman forever.
- Sophie
It was so helpful to have that 1:1 air time to talk about my dates, what they meant, how I’m showing up, my anxieties, what my blindspots may be and whether the men’s behaviour was high or low quality.
- Alexa
I found this work groundbreaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ of my failed relationships, and I’ve since found a lifelong partner who I’ve started a family with.
- Aisha
Learning about the archetypes and what it means to be an ‘integrated’ woman was a game-changer, not just for how I relate within my relationship, but also within myself and how I relate to the world at large.
- Stacey
Her guidance flipped a switch in me and I know I’ll never go back to how I was before. I’m a changed woman forever.
- Sophie
I see myself as a whole whereas before I only saw myself in parts. This work helped me understand the full picture of who I am and what I bring to a relationship.
- Claire
I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. I’ve felt a deeper sense of clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.
- Lynda

From Good Girl Conditioning to a Wise Woman in Her Power

You’ve spent years being capable, considerate and easy to love.

Reading the room. Holding it together. Doing the right thing. Keeping the peace. Trying to be attractive, successful, kind, low-maintenance, emotionally mature and endlessly understanding.

But there comes a point where the version of you who earned love through pressure, performance and self-abandonment can no longer lead the life you’re being called into.

This is where the real work begins: unwinding the conditioning that taught you to override yourself, and rebuilding your relationship with love, men, desire and power from deep inner trust.

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This Is Your Invitation

The Woman Who Knows How to Receive Is the Most Powerful Woman in the Room.

And if you feel the pull, you’re ready to begin.

Walk with me if you refuse to settle for a lukewarm existence and are looking for a mentor who actually meets you at your depth, you just found her.

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