Rediscover your capacity to find, claim and keep
the love that you really want and deserve...

Are you sick and tired of being single?
Are you looking to start a family one day, but can't quite find a partner who meets your needs?
Are you ready to overcome the blocks and barriers that are keeping you from getting the love you want?
​My name is Jiveny Blair-West and I'm a Dating & Attraction Coach.

In a nutshell, I help smart, successful men and women who are single and looking, find, attract and sustain a nourishing long-term relationship. Because it's the quality of our relationships that have the most direct impact on the quality of our life.

Yet the truth is, many of us find it hard to sustain healthy and loving intimate relationships because we just haven't had good role models or reference points to learn from, particularly in the realms of our romantic relationships.

In particular, I empower women to heal the  dysfunctional patterns in their relationships with men. A lot of this work involves bringing the unconscious to the conscious, understanding that

95% of our lives are driven by the unconscious mind and the habits and patterns we've picked up throughout our lives. Often these stem from limiting beliefs which are not necessarily helpful or true.

Learning to identify these patterns and grow from them is the key to success in all areas of life as dysfunctional patterns will continue to repeat themselves until the lesson is learned.

My transformational coaching programs allow women to do this in a safe and supportive environment so that they can drop the baggage and move forward with their love life, navigating the dating scene with clarity, insight and a road map.

I want you to know how good things can be.
I want you to know how worthy you are of real, romantic love.
And, I want you to know how good it feels to love and be loved. 

Dating & Attraction Consulting is your solution if you're ready to:

+ Move on from a painful breakup and discover an even better relationship

+ Attract a high value partner, worthy of committing to

+ Reconnect with the sacredness of your sexuality, improve your sex life and unleash your inner sex-goddess

+ Overcome any ruts or rough patches you may be experiencing in your current relationship

+ Develop even stronger and healthier relationships with yourself and others

+ Ditch the negative self-talk that keeps you stuck and find a deeper sense of meaning and purpose in your day-to-day life

Angelica Avila-LemosBusiness Coach

Jiveny is extremely knowledgeable in the area of relationships. My favourite part of working with Jiveny was being real about how I was feeling and having her let me know that it was okay to feel that way. Her soothing voice and ability to respond with so much love allowed me to flourish into the next best version of myself. Also, I walked away with huge amounts of knowledge and wisdom about what a fulfilling relationship is and my role in it. She is a true treasure!"


Imagine sharing your life with a significant other who rocks your world and knowing that this person has your back through thick and thin.

Imagine traveling the world with them, laughing on a daily basis, being held by them and making the most exquisite love with them. And maybe even one day, creating a family together.

Imagine knowing that you are worthy of great love because you’re already living it every day and you’ve got the tools within you now to make it last.

Jon Handleman Workshop Facilitator

Jiveny is one of the most engaging, proactive, and passionate people you will ever meet. She has a way of connecting to the core of someone and is a constant source of inspiration, growth, adventure, and compassion. She’s helped me see myself more clearly many times by helping me access the best parts of who I am. She’ll do the same for you.”

It's the quality of your relationships that has the most direct impact on the quality of your life...

Infusing psychology with real-life experience, science with practical spirituality and old truths with modern wisdom, I'm committed to helping you to upgrade your love life with confidence, clarity and insight.

José Miranda Client Relationship Manager

Jiveny has a great ear for discovering the underlying limitations and concerns that were blocking me in my dating life - many of which, I didn't even know I had! As we uncovered each one, Jiveny helped me to create new and healthier strategies to overcome them. Her approach to coaching was smooth and effortless, leaving me with an increased sense of confidence and self-belief. Over the course of our sessions together, I actually began to fall in love with myself again. Overall, Jiveny creates a safe and comfortable environment for growth.

I fell in love.  I fell out of love. I chased love. I renounced love. I confused lust for love. I ignored love for lust. Sometimes I broke hearts. Other times my heart got broken. Still I soldiered on, seeking a loving connection that could weather my storm...

Helen Coelho Program Coordinator

Jiveny is very caring and professional in her approach. Our sessions together were truly pleasant and insightful, and gave me a better understanding of the issues I had been facing in past relationships and dating. During our sessions, Jiveny demonstrated a genuine care and commitment to my results as she helped bring to my awareness some unresourceful thinking and negative self-talk. Her approaches, strategies and resources were invaluable, helping me to adopt more effective habits and become who I truly want to be. Overall, coaching with Jiveny was a really positive experience and I’m grateful for the clarity and increased confidence it's given me to live life to it´s fullest.


Regina Jeans Social Worker

This coaching experience with Jiveny has woken me up to my own path with a desire to forge, create and sustain myself in having an abundant life of purpose and adventure. I am so grateful and can tell you that I have already made so much personal progress since beginning this journey with her. Things that I considered distractions are now under control. I got the job I was working towards and I have also been offered paid work at my placement. My health and yoga journey have also begun to show big results! I am really grateful for this introduction to self-discovery, growth and intentional living as Jiveny opened me up to mindfully beginning a new relationship with myself. I also found the way she facilitated breaking things down for me very helpful, so we could explore and uncover what I was really feeling and wanting. This helped to clarify my own direction in life. I get told a lot lately how well I seem to be doing and part of that is absolutely down to that first of many coaching sessions I had with Jiveny. Now I’m learning how to tap into my own power and I’m so excited for the future!”


Matthew Sweetmãn Music Producer

Talking with Jiveny really helped open me up to viewing my problems and ideas from another perspective. I felt instant rapport and a real sense of genuine care throughout our sessions. Jiveny has a kind-hearted and compassionate approach to shedding light on some confronting personal matters. Through this, she helped me to develop strategies on how to deal with life and the problems I was facing in a well rounded and robust way. Our follow-up sessions always picked up right where we left off which really helped to keep the momentum going. Overall, I feel my sessions with Jiveny were and are highly beneficial to me.