Meet Jiveny

For the Woman Who Knows She Is Here for More.

You may have built a beautiful life: meaningful work, friendships, a home, a family, a version of success that looks good from the outside.

And still, you know there is more available to you.

More love. More support. More pleasure. More self-trust. More room to breathe.

You want to feel deeply met in your relationships and at home in yourself. You want a life that does not just look good, but feels good to live inside.

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This Is My Work

I Help Women Build Lives, Love and Relationships That Actually Feel Good to Live Inside.

I am not here to help women perform empowerment.

I am here to help you build the self-trust, relationship skills and capacity to receive the life you say you want.

Love that feels secure, alive and reciprocal.

Standards that protect your heart without closing it.

Ambition, devotion, pleasure and presence that can exist in the same life.

Because the next level is rarely about doing more. It is about learning how to hold more.

My Story

The Long Road Home to Love, Life and Myself.

Some parts of life ask you to climb a mountain before you understand why you were called there.

Relationships have always been part of my world. I grew up with two relationship therapist parents, including my father, psychiatrist Dr George Blair-West. But knowing about love and learning how to live it are two very different things.

I fell in love. I fell out of love. I chased love. I renounced love. I confused lust for love. I ignored love for lust. Sometimes I broke hearts. Other times my heart got broken. Still, I soldiered on, seeking a loving connection that could weather my storm…

After a devastating break-up in my twenties, I spent eighteen months putting myself back together. It was painful, humbling and the beginning of a deeper search for the truth about love, attraction and relationships.

My own search took me far beyond the world I knew.

I travelled the world, became a yoga teacher, sat with shamans, worked with plant medicine, prayed, and sought out extraordinary coaches and mentors of my own.

I studied coaching, NLP, Timeline Therapy, Emotional Processing and Internal Family Systems. I followed the questions that would not leave me alone: how do we heal? How do we love? How do we create a life that feels true, rather than simply looking good from the outside?

Then I met Joe, my now-husband, on a tram in Melbourne. Building our relationship, marriage and family has been one of my greatest teachers.

Today, I weave together this collective experience to coach women from their twenties through to their seventies towards lives with more passion, purpose, play, self-trust and love.

In 2016, I began coaching women. I am now the co-author of How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life and co-founder of Dating for Love.

Ways to Work With Me

Start Where You Are.

You do not need to have your whole life mapped out before you begin.

Whether you are looking for a focused place to start, or ready for deeper, personalised support, there is a pathway to meet you where you are.

The Initiation

The Art of Receiving

Stop working so hard for love, support and validation. A foundational deep dive for the woman ready to soften her defences, release hyper-independence, and open to receiving from grounded feminine power.

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The Transformation

1:1 Mentorship

Private coaching with Jiveny for the woman ready for deeper support in love, identity, confidence and becoming. Together, you’ll untangle old patterns, strengthen self-trust, and step into your next chapter with more clarity, courage and support.

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The Immersion

Magnetic Woman Retreats

An intimate retreat experience for the woman ready to step out of everyday life and into deeper embodiment, connection and expansion. Come home to your body, your desire and the wise woman within.

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What I Believe

The Way We Love Shapes What We Leave Behind.

I believe self-trust is more useful than a thousand rules.

I believe standards can be deeply loving.

I believe femininity does not need to be performed.

And I believe that the more we learn to love better, the more we empower future generations to thrive in their own relationships.

You do not need a new personality. You do not need every step mapped out. You simply need to begin.

With love,