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Love is the ultimate gamble, but success in dating - like success in poker - does not rely on luck. A great poker player will cultivate their game and bet big only when the cards are right.

Transform the cards you've been dealt into The Winning Hand

Transform the cards you've been dealt into The Winning Hand

it's your time

Good relationships don't just happen to us.

It's time to up your dating strategy and win over the love of your live.

After all, women want a man with a winning hand.

The Winning Hand™️

introducing

A part of you is aware that time is ticking. You wonder when your turn will come. Or the scarier thought, what if time runs out and you never get to meet your match?

relationship limbo

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You swear off dating apps, only to get back on them again weeks later. Or you just find yourself 'too busy' concentrating on other goals to take proper steps towards letting new love into your life.

inconsistent Actions

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You find yourself sticking to old habits in your love life but sometimes worry your approach is all wrong and you're making the same mistakes again and again.

unnecessary heartache

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In this era of apps, dating burnout is as common as confusion or overwhelm. Can you recognise any of these symptoms?

But dating doesn't have to be this way...

Repeating an ineffective strategy erodes your self esteem with tiny heartbreaks, again and again.

In today's world, it can be tempting to wear a mask rather than show our true selves. Many men aren't sure exactly how welcome they are in the world today, or what women are actually interested in about men.

But women are just as interested in men as ever - while also expecting more from their relationships. Gone are the dark days of male tyranny, today women and men lead in families and societies as equals. Modern relationships are founded on respect, collaboration and equality, and countless empowered women are out there seeking suitable matches in this Brave New World.

To be truly seen as a man with a winning hand, we first have to drop our masks and let others see the real man within. Being this vulnerable is made easier by understanding what we really want, and knowing how to share that with potential partners.

Ok, here's an important question for you...

Do you feel that women see your value as a
potential partner?

Don't worry, this isn't about cheesy pickup lines or attempting to manipulate women. This is about building true dating and relationship confidence that you'll use for the rest of your life.

If you're ready to unpack what's been missing from your dating strategy, transform your approach and go to the next level in your relationships, I can help you. 

Beyond being Jiveny's husband and collaborator, I have years of coaching experience and am a co-creator of her signature course for women, the Alchemy of Attraction. The Winning Hand represents the male perspective of this course.

You're a great fit for this dating course if you love the idea of joining a group of like-minded men who are ready to make lasting change.

Forget endlessly swiping right for new matches. Instead, I'll show you how to identify your relationship strategy, see where you're going wrong and adapt your approach to dating in a way that feels easy and empowering.

Hey, I'm Joe, Jiveny's husband and dating & attraction coach for men. Together, we can get past what is holding you back from a great relationship

Meet your teacher

I know what it feels like to be lost, trying to unlock your dating & relationship success

Now, I didn't always have a winning hand myself...

Show up on dates with confidence in yourself

Project warmth and intrigue

Have women pursuing YOU for commitment

Build a loving, passionate & healthy relationship



I also know how to unlock a deeply fulfilling way of approaching relationships with women that greatly boosts your chances of falling (and staying) in love. I can help you:


Done with unnecessary heartache from trying to figure everything out on your own

Serious about this - you want to move quickly and welcome love into your life, without delay! 

Interested in more than just a casual hookup (they're fine, but not what this course is about) 

Eager for the real deal: the inspiring thrill ride that is true and lasting love


A man seeking a relationship with a woman*

Disappointed by your previous mistakes in relationships 

Tired of attracting people who don't really interest you (while getting nowhere with women you really like) 

Willing to develop your inner guides around dating and tune into your innate wisdom 

Open to new techniques for communicating with potential partners and pushing through the fear

Ready to setup healthier patterns to build your ideal future and dream relationship

You're right for this course if you are:

Who is this course for?

*This course is purely focused on helping men to understand attraction and relate to women better. Women can explore our Alchemy of Attraction course here. If you are interested in an LGTBQI+ relationship course, please email us here. We will be working on other versions of this course in the future and would love to hear from you!


Live Q&A sessions (with me) to make sure we're all on the same page


An online community connecting you with other men on a similar journey


Lifetime course access - jump in for a refresher any time!

9 weeks of relationship insights, with audio, video and written materials to support your learning


Four archetypes and shadow sides to map out your dating approaches


Practical exercises and external resources to make this knowledge real


What's Inside The Course?

Unlock more confidence in how you approach, interact and relate to women

Develop a deeper understanding of how to navigate the modern dating scene and get satisfying results

Update your relationship strategy so that you'll be able to attract the woman of your dreams

Get insights into the hearts and minds of women as you learn how to nurture and relate to them more effectively

Build a secure relationship by asserting healthy boundaries with confidence and grace along the way

In this course you will...

The Winning Hand Course is completely different to Jiveny's Book 'How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life'

The Alchemy of Attraction Course Continues the Learnings from Our Book

'How to Make the Biggest Decision
of Your Life'

Jiveny and her father (a psychiatrist and relationship therapist) wrote this book to help people more carefully consider the choice of choosing a life partner. It unpacks what to be looking at and exploring with a potential suitor.

In this course, we'll be taking these insights to the next level by exploring how we can maximise our own masculine gifts. 

It’s about improving your dating strategy to more easily attract a quality partner and build a secure and passionate long-term relationship from the start.

Regardless of whether you've read this book or not, the course will set you up for relationships success by multiplying your options. Then you can read the book to figure out who to choose!

No one teaches us how to date in school and the internet is full of opinions from shallow pickup artistry techniques to confusing messages about "being an alpha male."  Sometimes we can get so overwhelmed that we lose touch with own natural instincts. And when we start to doubt ourselves, our confidence crumbles.

Perhaps you fell hard for someone and desperately tried to keep them. Or perhaps you have a strong fear of intimacy, so you've never let anyone get too close. Now life is rushing by and you're worried that a great love just isn't in your future.

I know you have the potential to attract good love into your life. Successful dating for men all starts with knowing yourself, and tapping into your own inner wisdom. It's all there within you, just waiting to be actualised.

Let us show you how with The Winning Hand relationship course for men.

We've all read the fairy tale... You meet a beautiful princess, fall in love, are happy, 'the end.' But it's not so simple, is it?

Happily NEVER After?

Discover the four archetypes of masculine attraction to embody the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate secure, long-term relationship.

Identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and what you need to do to present yourself as a very desirable partner for high quality, eligible women.

Refine your relationship vision and learn to develop healthy boundaries so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people.

Learn how to safely express your desire; how to let people in and build a strong emotional connection that can be the foundation for a great relationship.

Develop a dating strategy that actually gets you the love you want. Learn the subtle art of pacing so that you don't sabotage or rush a relationship.

Inside this ecourse you'll learn all you need to know about attraction dynamics and building a strong foundation for a healthy relationship:

Discover exactly what you'll learn:

Take a look inside the course modules and...

Gain clarity as you identify where your dating strategy is weakest, why and how to fix it

Unpack the foundations of a healthy relationship and get clear on the qualities of a high value woman

Learn about sustainable attraction dynamics and harness the power of an effective dating strategy

Discover the four archetypes of masculine attraction; each archetype symbolises the skills necessary to build a healthy, passionate and secure, relationship

Week One: Your Foundation

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Learn the skillset of healthy boundaries and feel stronger when it comes to asserting them elegantly

Take action and develop your experience with practical exercises that anchor this wisdom in the real world

Get stuck into the lessons of your first archetype; learn about their superpowers and understand their shadow sides

Clarify your relationship vision and asses previous dating strategies that no  longer serve you so that you don't waste any more of your precious time with the wrong people


Weeks 2 & 3: Your Vision & Your Power

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Discover the value of empowered vulnerability as you understand and improve your relationship to women

Learn how to let someone in and build a strong emotional connection without scaring them away

Meet your second archetype. Get to know their lessons and understand their shadow sides

Explore the negative beliefs you may have about women and relationships that are holding you back from making a strong connection

Weeks 4 & 5: Your Truth & Your Connection

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Study how to develop a deep connection with women and invite intimacy into new relationships

Learn how to build tension and exercise self-restraint to drive women wild

Meet your third archetype; the Lover and learn how he connects with and attracts quality women

Discover how to radiate self confidence and facilitate magnetic attraction through successful flirting techniques

Weeks 6 & 7: Desire & Intimacy

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Integrate the tools to stay connected to your individuality while you navigate a new relationship

Connect with your own relationship wisdom and anchor your new dating strategy in the real world

Meet your final archetype, uncover their shadow sides and embody their key lessons

Learn to understand and relate to women on a level that makes them see you as real, 'life partner' material

Weeks 8 & 9: Your Wisdom & Your Plan

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You'll be joining a safe community of men who share your hopes and dreams for the future.

Together, we will witness and support each other while we do the deep inner work required to shift our relationship mindsets.

It's a dating course for men with a safe space to share and celebrate.

But nothing is forced:
     you can share and be vulnerable
     or you can sit back, listen and absorb at your own pace

No matter how little or how much you contribute, you will get the support you need and interact in a way that is unashamedly you.

I deliberately limit group places so I can give everyone plenty of individual attention.

With five modules of online content AND nine group sessions with me, this tailored program will transform your love life for the better.

All the support you need!

This is not a go-it-alone relationship course

The Winning Hand walks you through a proven, four-part framework. It will take you from feeling stuck in your love life and unable to attract a quality partner, to easily and consistently attracting good women who value who you are and are willing to pursue you for commitment. This puts you in the diver’s seat of your love life so that you can choose the right partner for yourself and co-create the family/lifestyle you have always wanted.

Imagine if you could
say goodbye to all your
dating turmoil

And now it's your turn!

The Winning Hand dating & relationship course isn't like other courses out there

Develop a solid understanding of how to navigate the modern dating scene with clarity and insight as we unpack and redesign your dating strategy.

Learn how to communicate and relate to men more effectively as you take control of your love life and expand your dating options.

 


This is a no fluff approach with practical advice divided into weekly lessons that help you:

Join me live or work through the modules at your own pace. Either way the content is all yours to discover and revisit at any time!

Connect and share your experiences with the other students in this course via the online community portal.

A unique online experience including self-paced classes and a community of like-minded men:

Put everything you learn in this course into practice. With practical exercises and external resources this course is designed to support you in making this knowledge real!

Not only will you have access to this round of the course, but you'll also be able to access all future updates.

A tools and resources hub to help you stay on track and implement your learnings so you can:

All Zoom sessions will be recorded so if you can't make the live call, you'll have access to the recording to review at your own pace.

You can ask any extra questions that come up as you work through the course and ensure we're all on the same page.

Exclusive access to your teacher (that's me!) via weekly Zoom calls:

How much time will the course take each week?

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I bet you're wondering...

your questions answered

How much time will the course take each week?

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How much time will the course take each week?

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To get the best from your investment, I suggest you allow one hour for the group coaching calls and 30-60 minutes during the week to complete your coursework. But the assignments I set you won't be like school homework! They're all fun, practical exercises designed to prompt you into challenging your thinking about women, relationships, love and attraction.

Do I get lifetime access to this course?

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Do I get lifetime access to this course?

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Yes! You get to keep all the worksheets and get access to all future course updates as they are released. Better yet, purchasing this round means you get all the present and future value at the best possible price, as course prices will increase the next time I offer this course.

Am I really ready to do this course?

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Am I really ready to do this course?

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It depends. If you have deep-seated issues regarding relationships, this course may not be the solution. Professional therapy, counselling or psychological support may be necessary. While we have helped people recovering from trauma, they need to truly put it behind them first in order to be ready to complete this course.

On the other hand, if you are frustrated with your old dating habits and ready to claim your confidence and find a new way to attract love, then you, my friend, are totally ready.

When will the group calls be scheduled?

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When will the group calls be scheduled?

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Even if you can’t make some or any of the live calls, you’ll still get ongoing access to the video recordings to watch the replay at a later time so that you can work through the course at your own pace. You'll also have the opportunity to ask me any questions as you review the videos via the online forum.

The dates and times of the live calls will be announced in January 2022. Join the waiting list today and we will notify you once the next round of dates are confirmed. :-)

How will the group calls run?

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How will the group calls run?

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The calls will be scheduled via Zoom. When you register for the course you will get a calendar invitation to add all the calls to your calendar at once. Before each call, you'll also get an email with the login details. 

After each call you'll get access to a recording, plus the slides and resources covered in that lesson.

Do I need to have Facebook for this course?

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Do I need to have Facebook for this course?

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There is a facebook group, however it is not necessary to do this course. All you need to access and participate in this course will be hosted within the course portal.

How can I contact you with questions during the course?

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How can I contact you with questions during the course?

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I encourage you to ask questions as the course unfolds. You can do this either live, in the Zoom chat while we are on a group call or between sessions by submitting your questions in the community forum. These questions will then either be answered online via the course platform or during one of our fortnightly Q&A sessions. Recordings of these sessions will also be made available.

Can I get 1:1 coaching as well?

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Can I get 1:1 coaching as well?

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Of course! If you feel you want additional one-to-one support from Joe, you can enquire here to find out about his next availability for coaching calls and we will do our best to give preference to TWH students.

What if I don’t like the course, can I get a refund?

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What if I don’t like the course, can I get a refund?

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Yes, this course has a 14-day do the work money-back guarantee which means:
If you don’t feel like TWH is giving you the skills, strategy, and support you need to attract a quality partner, just email us at support@jiveny.com within the first two weeks of the course starting, and I’ll give you your money back. The only thing you have to do is attend the calls live or watch the recordings, and show me that you've done the homework. Refunds must be requested within 14 days of the course starting. No refunds are provided after the first 14 days, and I do not provide pro-rata refunds for cancelled accounts. After the initial refund period expires, I will continue to process any remaining payments (if you have selected a payment plan option).

Clarity and confidence when it comes to approaching the dating scene.

A dating strategy that actually works, and helps you to create a strong foundation of love from the beginning.

Transform hookups into girlfriends (but only if you want to!) Have quality women pursuing you for a committed relationship so that you can take your pick!

Learn how to get (and stay) in the drivers seat of your love life. This means you get to set the pace and date women who are committed to bringing their best to a relationship.

Attract a partner who absolutely adores you. Someone who actually puts effort into moving things forward and building an epic life with you!



This course is perfect for you if you want real results like....

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