Did you know that attraction and relationship building are skills that can be learned and developed?

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The reality is, how you show up in the world has the potential to ether spark or smother the future of a new relationship in seconds.

On top of that, the early stages of dating tend to be the MOST difficult to navigate with mixed messages and terrible advice being thrown around left, right and centre. This can lead to a lot of confusion, ineffective strategies and unnecessary heartache.

And it's not your fault! The truth is, many of us struggle to sustain healthy and loving intimate relationships because we just haven't had good role models or reference points to learn from when it comes to dating and relationships.

The good news is, the things that are holding you back from getting the love you want ARE fixable. Learning to identify and transform dysfunctional patterns of self-sabotage is an important life skill to learn. Otherwise, these kinds of patterns will continue to repeat themselves until you learn how to relate differently.

Wouldn’t it be great to know how to navigate the modern dating scene and make a lasting impression on a quality person? 

Ditch the baggage, negative self-talk and anything else that keeps you from being magnetically attractive

Transform the recurring patterns in your love life that leave you feeling lost, lonely and confused

Feel more confident and clear around the opposite sex - particularly those that you would like to date.

Create a stable and secure connection but on mutual respect and admiration

Develop the foundational skills for a healthy, loving relationship

Discover a deeper sense of self-love, purpose and meaning in your day to day life.

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attracting unavailable people over and over again?

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find a quality partner to share and support you through the next chapters of your life?

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A Faster Path To Real Love by tapping into my experience as someone who's 'been there' and spent years studying, practicing and refining the art of modern dating.

A Judgement Free Zone for you to be heard and seen, where there is no right or wrong and whatever you share with me is confidential.

A Mindset For Success - believe it or not, your mindset is the key to a more satisfying love life.

An Increased Sense Of Self Confidence along with tailored strategies to help reinforce positive change in your love life and beyond.

An Increased Depth of Awareness as we identify and unpack your relationship patterns and triggers. This is essential in order to understand what's needed to achieve sustainable change.

Professional Advice and Support, in understanding the intricacies of your love life. After all, it can be hard to see things clearly when you're 'in it'. 

Direct and Honest Feedback - the kinds of truths your friends and family might just be too shy to tell you.

Accountability to help keep you focused and on track towards getting the love you want.

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Life Coaching

Life Coaching

Over the years, Life Coaching has grown to become a very successful form of talk therapy. A life coach can be described as a guide or a mentor who shares the goal to support and empower others in achieving their personal or professional goals.

In my case, our focus is largely on addressing your love life, although this often naturally flows over into other related areas such as enhancing your social skills, building your confidence and self-esteem, and exploring the steps you need to take in order to live a full and meaningful life.

With around 40% of marriages resulting in divorce, more and more people are turning to life coaching services in an attempt to learn the skills necessary to avoid such a fate.

In my work, I have recognised several key insights that can really make a difference when it comes to choosing a life partner and cultivating a passionate, secure and fulfilling intimate relationship. I am invested in this work because I've also seen the ripple effect that comes with each generation. When we engage in dysfunctional relationships, our children absorb unhealthy relationship patterns too. The inverse is also true; when we learn to love our partners better, we naturally pass on healthy relationship skills to the next generation. This is where my passion and drive originates from.

IFS Therapy

IFS Therapy

Internal Family Systems℠ is highly regarded as a cutting-edge psychological model developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz. With its origins in psychotherapy, IFS has proven to be relevant in a range of applications and can be an insightful tool to enhance the coaching process.

Many coaching models tend to ignore or even dismiss the wounded parts of our psyche - particularly the painful emotions that do not seem to be aligned with our aspirations and intended goals. This kind of approach can be damaging to our internal world and often leaves us with unresolved conflict that can prevent us from achieving real and lasting change. In contrast, the IFS-Inspired Coaching method is committed to honouring (rather than marginalising) all parts of our psyche, knowing that their existence is essential for sustainable transformation.

Without this holistic approach, we may continue to feel stuck, disempowered and sabotage our goals as we cannot change what we don’t understand or acknowledge.

For this reason, IFS-inspired coaching offers us a roadmap for practicing self leadership. Through doing this work, we are able to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and live from a more integrated place of being. Through uncovering the hidden drives of our behaviour we empower ourselves to negotiate any inner conflict with a more wholistic approach to decision making.

Many coaching models tend to ignore or even dismiss the wounded parts of our psyche - particularly the painful emotions that do not seem to be aligned with our aspirations and intended goals. This kind of approach can be damaging to our internal world and often leaves us with unresolved conflict that can prevent us from achieving real and lasting change. In contrast, the IFS-Inspired Coaching method is committed to honouring (rather than marginalising) all parts of our psyche, knowing that their existence is essential for sustainable transformation.

Without this holistic approach, we may continue to feel stuck, disempowered and sabotage our goals as we cannot change what we don’t understand or acknowledge.

For this reason, IFS-inspired coaching offers us a roadmap for practicing self leadership. Through doing this work, we are able to develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and live from a more integrated place of being. Through uncovering the hidden drives of our behaviour we empower ourselves to negotiate any inner conflict with a more wholistic approach to decision making.

Neuro Linguistic Programming

Neuro Linguistic Programming

Neuro Linguistic Programming is essentially a modality designed to help one understand and work with the language of our unconscious. Created by Richard Bandler and John Grinder in the 1970s, NLP is a study of communication excellence and was later developed as an approach to psychotherapy and personal development.

NLP recognises that in order to facilitate long-term behavioural change and break free of old patterns of self-sabotage, a shift needs to happen on both an unconscious and conscious level. This is why we can consciously know something we're doing is not serving us, yet will often continue to play out the pattern until our unconscious mind aligns with the change.

In a nutshell, NLP is a sophisticated approach for learning how to accomplish one's goals with long-term, sustainable results. It provides people with set of techniques and tools that enable us to work with our unconscious mind (instead of against it). This allows us to recover much more of our untapped personal power in the process.

Timeline Therapy

Timeline Therapy

Timeline Therapy is a subtle form of hypnosis that explores an individual's internal organisation of memories. We call this 'your time line'. This modality can be used as a means for accessing and navigating our internal world and working with the unconscious mind.

Timeline Therapy has a variety of applications, including to eliminate unwanted thoughts, heal emotional traumas, release limiting decisions and redirect unwanted behaviours. It also enables the possibility to create our own future by design.

​Best of all, Timeline Therapy can produce effective results in minutes - rather than days, months or years.

Emotional Processing

Emotional Processing

Emotional Processing is a technique used to help clear inappropriate and unwarranted residual emotions. It works with the principal that all of our emotions are valid and have a purpose. In fact, they can be great teachers when we take the time to process our emotions and understand their lessons.

The problem is, in this day and age we tend to live our lives very fast with very little time to reflect on and understand our emotions. For example, we might find ourselves suddenly triggered into anger or sadness but don't have time to go into it, so we push it down and get on with our lives instead. Over time, these residual emotions don't disappear. Rather, they get stockpiled on top of each other until the next incident that triggers them. Then we find ourselves feeling 10x angrier at something that we logically know we should care less about. This is because the whole stockpile is activated.

Emotional processing allows us to 'wipe the slate clean' so to speak. In using this therapeutic technique, we can process old emotions and learn from them so that we are not taking them forward into our lives. It also gives us new tools for dealing with our emotions in the future. This allows us to live less from a place of reaction and more from a place of response as we create space for clarity and insight.

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Sheridan, 34 | teacher

I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and felt like I had lost my way. I wanted to feel more grounded, trust in my decision making and be genuinely confident and happy with who I was so that I could meet someone to share my life with, but constant overthinking, self sabotage and lack of solid boundaries were holding me back.

Since working with Jiveny, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. We’ve nearly been together for 3 years at the time of writing this.

If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time.

Since working with Jiveny I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile.

ALEX, 32 | MEN'S WORK FACILITATOR

Jiveny has a warm and non-judgmental approach to coaching. I found it fascinating how her questions opened up new possibilities that could be applied to my relationship with my partner immediately. I felt very comfortable working together as I could see that Jiveny really does care about helping people to have a great relationship - with full expression, while honouring each other’s wants and needs.

Thank you for your gift to the world. It is needed now more than ever before as many of us have very poor education and awareness when it comes to navigating the most intimate relating we will ever do!

A warm and non-judgemental approach to coaching

Aisha, 36 | MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS MANAGER

Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I was also in these relationships for the wrong reasons so I guess they were destined to fail.

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships. She was able to help me to open myself to what I really wanted and let go of what wasn’t working.

I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. Applying the things I learned from Jiveny to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way. We’ve been together for four years now and have one-year-old twin baby girls. My partner is loyal beyond words - this was something I haven’t really ever been able to say before. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father.

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking and have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with.

JOSH, 25 | ENGINEER

When I first started working with Jiveny I was plagued with anxiety that I would never get to have a proper girlfriend. I had low self-esteem and struggled with anxiety.

Well to go straight to the biggest point – after working with Jiveny I soon met someone and now we are building a life together. I’ve also worked through some of the intimacy issues that I have had in the past.

This work has allowed me to become a lot more conscious of myself and how I am feeling, taking the time out to ask myself how I am each day. This has really helped to manage my anxiety. Overall, I found working with Jiveny very helpful.

From anxious to a happy, healthy relationship

MARGARET, 70 | RETIRED Researcher

When I first approached Jiveny, I was very fearful that she would not be interested in me because of my age and my, as I saw it then, failure to establish a successful relationship with a man. But, I was so wrong!

From the very beginning, Jiveny was warm, welcoming, perceptive, supportive and positive. The diversity and range of Jiveny’s skills clearly arises directly from the depth of her experience and understanding of human relationships.

This work has been and continues to be a fascinating journey revealing and clarifying much about my inner self resulting in real and very positive change. I love the way she is able to call out my strengths and deepen my perception even when my emotional state or experience feels dark. She provides concrete, empowering insights and techniques which truly work, and always is empathic and supportive!

Illuminating in often unexpected ways

JOHN, 33 | BUILDING SURVEYOR

Jiveny has helped me understand that I needed to work on myself and improve certain areas of my life which I had pushed aside as ‘not important’. Working on these areas has helped me become a more confident person, removed some of my social anxiety and assisted me to step outside of my comfort zone.

Since working together, I have improved my flirting skills and general conversation skills. I have also recognised that most women want a man to take the first step and approach. Together we have worked on developing stronger leadership skills, better understanding women and growing my internal confidence. This has put me in a better position to find the right partner that will complement me in life and has made the dating process a lot easier.

I have improved my flirting and general conversation skills.

Lauren, 28 | digital Marketing Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. After working with Jiveny I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.

Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

SEB, 37 | LAWYER

I was disillusioned with my dating life and seeking a long-term healthy relationship so I contacted Jiveny. From our very first session, I felt comfortable and excited to begin working with her.

Through our work, she helped me identify my barriers, clarify what I wanted in a partner and what a healthy relationship looked like. I was also able to identify the mistakes I had been making. This work has really helped me to developed much more confidence in dating and relationship and I was excited to put what we worked on into practice.

I am now in the best relationship I have ever had and excited for the future. I attribute this to the work I did with Jiveny. Whether you are in the dating world or in a relationship, I would not hesitate in recommending Jiveny. She has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.

Jiveny has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.

KRISTINA, 30 | PHYSIOTHERAPIST

Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away. Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying).

Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.

I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication feel effortless and natural. Overall, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed and I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!

 I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed.

PAUL, 46 | IT MANAGER

I found working with Jiveny was a valuable process of self discovery. It was helpful to learn the small things that can really make a difference in meeting someone as well as strategies to detach from the outcome of an interaction and be more present with women. The insights and exercises helped me to understand the sorts of things I'd done wrong in the past that most women aren't going to overlook.

Her female perspective was helpful because there are just some things we don't learn or pick up on along the way - sometimes someone actually needs to tell us directly. Also, while Jiveny's coaching is primarily focused on helping us to meet people and find that special someone, I found it also gave me a vehicle to figure out the sort of life I want to be living and how to be happy with or without a partner.

Her female perspective was helpful because there are just some things we don't learn or pick up on along the way

TANISHA, 22 | STUDENT

Before working with Jiveny I struggled to attract men who I was genuinely interested in; and whenever I managed to, I found it to be quite the challenge to hold their interest. It made me feel afraid and unworthy constantly; like I needed to prove my worth whenever I felt the other person was uninterested.

I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood. Jiveny has done wonders in showing me where my inner strength was hiding and I learned that it is possible for my wants and needs to be met in a relationship. I’m now 13 months into a new relationship that is healthy and fulfilling and I’d highly recommend Jiveny for anyone looking to refocus their minds and hearts. 

I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood.

DANIEL, 25 | RESEARCH ASSISTANT

I would definitely recommend Jiveny to anyone looking for support in their own journey of personal growth. I have found that working with her has made an astronomical difference to my dating life and the relationships I have with my work colleagues and family members.

I have always appreciated Jiveny's approach to understanding what I need and tailoring our sessions accordingly. Jiveny has also offered additional resources for those like me, who love to self learn. All in all, my work with Jiveny has fundamentally changed the way I view the world around me for the better.

Working with Jiveny has made an astronomical difference to my dating life and the relationships

ANNE, 56 | TRAVEL INDUSTRY Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had been meandering the online dating circuit for about 18 months with no real luck beyond a third date. Jiveny helped me to understand the destructive patterns I had created for myself and assisted me in developing a greater awareness of the ways in which I was self-sabotaging my love life.

Throughout our sessions together, I felt a genuine sense of care from Jiveny and never rushed. Her course materials and resources are fantastic and really helped me to get clear on what I want from a relationship and why. The best support has been in understanding the decisions I have made and how these have drawn the wrong kinds of people to me in the past. The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

Best of all, I am now in a healthy long-term relationship with a wonderful man.

The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

ZOE, 31 | PROJECT MANAGER

Jiveny gave me permission to speak openly about some of my deepest fears, anxieties, desires and dreams and was completely present with me as I talked. Her questions guided me to self-assess and reflect on my own beliefs and attitudes in ways that I had never considered before.

Through this, I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. Most of all, Jiveny helped me identify the deeper core feelings and unmet needs stopping me from living my life fully. After our coaching sessions I've felt a deeper sense clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.

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