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If you’re tired of feeling stuck in unhealthy patterns or unsure of how to attract the love you deserve, you’ve come to the right place. Maybe you find yourself questioning whether you're making the right decisions in dating, wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners, or feeling unsure of your self-worth when it comes to love. You know there’s more to life than this, but you’re not clear on how to get there.

It’s exhausting trying to navigate dating and long-term relationship building on your own, especially when you keep getting stuck in the same cycles.

You're not alone.

Are you struggling to attract the right relationship?

You're not interested in superficial connections or relationships that feel like hard work. Instead, you want depth, authenticity, and a partner who is equally committed to growth.

But the road to this kind of love requires you to heal, grow, and shift your mindset. Which is why you’re looking for someone who can walk alongside you, help you to navigate challenges, provide feedback, and support you as you break through old patterns and embrace new possibilities.

You desire a relationship where you feel truly seen, heard, and loved for who you are—a relationship that is built on trust, communication, and a shared vision for the future.

It’s time to break free from old patterns and create the love you desire.

Can you relate?

If so, my VIP coaching packages are designed for you. With a combination of 1:1 coaching and online resources, I’ll help you go from questioning your worth and sabotaging relationships to standing in your full power and attracting the right kind of love and connection. 💃 ❤️‍🔥 ✨

They tell me, “I keep attracting the wrong partners, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” and “I’m starting to wonder if I’ll ever find someone who truly understands me.”

I can’t tell you how often I talk to women who feel overwhelmed and frustrated with their dating lives...

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Not so long ago, I was stuck in the same frustrating cycles–questioning my worth, attracting the wrong partners, and wondering if I would ever experience the kind of love I was seeking. For a while, I even began to worry that there might be something inherently wrong with me.

But what I eventually learned is that it wasn’t about changing who I was—it was about healing from the inside out, shifting my energy, and learning how to attract true love by stepping into my own power.

I’ve since come to realise that there’s a big difference between just “being in a relationship” and building a great relationship—the kind of secure, loving partnership that continues to make your heart flutter, even decades into it. And that's what I’m here to help you create.

Today, I’m happily married to the man of my dreams, and I’ve helped countless women like you do the same. I’m living proof that it’s possible to stop the cycle of attracting the wrong partners and instead cultivate sustainable attraction—while staying true to yourself in the process.

Not so long ago, I was stuck in the same frustrating cycles–questioning my worth, attracting the wrong partners, and wondering if I would ever experience the kind of love I was seeking. For a while, I even began to worry that there might be something inherently wrong with me.

But what I eventually learned is that it wasn’t about changing who I was—it was about healing from the inside out, shifting my energy, and learning how to attract true love by stepping into my own power.

Truth is, there’s a big difference between just “being in a relationship” and building a great relationship—the kind of secure, loving partnership that continues to make your heart flutter, even decades into it. And that's what I’m here to help you create.

Today, I’m happily married to the man of my dreams, and I’ve helped countless women like you do the same. I’m living proof that it’s possible to stop the cycle of attracting the wrong partners and instead cultivate sustainable attraction—while staying true to yourself in the process.

And I know what it really takes to attract and create a deeply fulfilling, committed relationship with ease and confidence.

I can do this because I’ve been where you are…

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aisha, 36 | MARKETING MANAGER

Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I was also in these relationships for the wrong reasons so I guess they were destined to fail.

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships. She was able to help me to open myself to what I really wanted and let go of what wasn’t working.

I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. Applying the things I learned from Jiveny to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way. We’ve been together for four years now and have one-year-old twin baby girls. My partner is loyal beyond words - this was something I haven’t really ever been able to say before. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father.

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking and I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with.

Lauren, 28 | digital Marketing Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. After working with Jiveny I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.

Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I'm now married to the man of my dreams -- which is huge, because I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny!

I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

STACEY, 34 | SENIOR MINISTERIAL ADVISER

Most of us have not learnt how to date ‘well’ or with clarity or intention. As they say: luck is not a strategy! Between therapy and talking about your dates with your friends, there is an important but untapped space. Jiveny fills this gap, empowering you to tackle the often confusing world of dating and relating with insight and intention. Her coaching equips you with a different kind of confidence and poise that comes from having a handle on some fundamental relationship truths and wisdom.

Now I don’t second guess my partner’s express interest, affection and devotion to me! I feel cherished and adored and cared for in my relationship. I am also getting more comfortable with letting my partner ‘lead’, though it’s still a work in progress! Most of all, I am confident that we are building a sustainable relationship that will carry us throughout our lives; that we are methodically exploring the right and important ‘big questions’ around values, goals and our life journey together.

I credit Jiveny & The Alchemy of Attraction course with setting me up for long-term sustainable success with a high-quality partner who is literally the man of my dreams!

Sheridan, 34 | teacher

I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and felt like I had lost my way. I wanted to feel more grounded, trust in my decision making and be genuinely confident and happy with who I was so that I could meet someone to share my life with, but constant overthinking, self sabotage and lack of solid boundaries were holding me back.

Since working with Jiveny, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. After 3 years of dating, we’re now married and parents to a beautiful baby girl!

If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time.

Since working with Jiveny I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile.

MARGARET, 73

Before I started to work with Jiveny, I was always seeming to be attracted to men who were unavailable. At age 69, I also thought I was much too old to find a loving, committed relationship. But age really does not come into it and I learned that by working and connecting with Jiveny.

At the time, I also felt quite negatively about myself. Yet Jiveny’s support, encouragement, wisdom meant that overtime, I again was able to change my view of myself.

Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man. He ticks all of the boxes that I was looking for - he’s good at communicating and listening, secure in himself, warm, affectionate and both interesting and interested in many things. We've been together for nearly 3 years now and I can really truthfully say that this is a relationship which is so satisfying and fulfilling – more than I ever thought a relationship could be. It’s just the most extraordinary experience!

“I used to think relationships just weren’t for me and that I was too old to find a loving, committed relationship. Now I’m in a relationship with a really lovely man. This is a relationship which is so satisfying & fulfilling - more than I ever thought it could be!”

KRISTINA, 30 | PHYSIOTHERAPIST

Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away. Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying).

Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.

I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication feel effortless and natural. Overall, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed and I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!

I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed.

TANISHA, 22 | STUDENT

Before working with Jiveny I struggled to attract men who I was genuinely interested in; and whenever I managed to, I found it to be quite the challenge to hold their interest. It made me feel afraid and unworthy constantly; like I needed to prove my worth whenever I felt the other person was uninterested.

I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood. Jiveny has done wonders in showing me where my inner strength was hiding and I learned that it is possible for my wants and needs to be met in a relationship. I’m now 13 months into a new relationship that is healthy and fulfilling and I’d highly recommend Jiveny for anyone looking to refocus their minds and hearts.

I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood.

sandra, 34 | FINANCE EXECUTIVE

Jiveny’s support has bolstered my confidence in building future relationships, guiding me along the right path and imparting invaluable insights on the journey ahead. I am extremely grateful for Jiveny's invaluable guidance and support throughout the past year that helped me achieve significant personal development. Recently, I found someone with whom I share a deep connection and I’m thrilled to announce we are now in a committed relationship!

I hope more people can benefit from her work – I highly recommended it!

Now, I approach dating with more confidence and optimism, and feel much more well equipped to create a healthy relationship.

ANNE, 56 | TRAVEL INDUSTRY Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had been meandering the online dating circuit for about 18 months with no real luck beyond a third date. Jiveny helped me to understand the destructive patterns I had created for myself and assisted me in developing a greater awareness of the ways in which I was self-sabotaging my love life.

Throughout our sessions together, I felt a genuine sense of care from Jiveny and never rushed. Her course materials and resources are fantastic and really helped me to get clear on what I want from a relationship and why. The best support has been in understanding the decisions I have made and how these have drawn the wrong kinds of people to me in the past. The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

Best of all, I am now in a healthy long-term relationship with a wonderful man.

The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

ZOE, 31 | PROJECT MANAGER

Jiveny gave me permission to speak openly about some of my deepest fears, anxieties, desires and dreams and was completely present with me as I talked. Her questions guided me to self-assess and reflect on my own beliefs and attitudes in ways that I had never considered before.

Through this, I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. Most of all, Jiveny helped me identify the deeper core feelings and unmet needs stopping me from living my life fully. After our coaching sessions I've felt a deeper sense clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.