Dating can be frustrating... But staying single forever?

That's not much fun either...

I know how confusing the dating scene can be, with mixed messages being thrown around left, right and centre. All the mind games people play and masks people wear can be exhausting, and I’m not going to sugar-coat it, there is a lot of bullshit to sort through. 

One day it seems like there could be a connection to get excited about... The next? Nothing. Leaving you disappointed and haunted by unanswered questions like, Was it them or was it me?

Maybe you talk it out with your friends and family, yet often they’re unable to give you a straight answer on what you might be doing wrong...

Even if they try, usually it's a case of the blind leading the blind. Because the reality is, no one really teaches us how to be good partners and lovers in our modern society!

The good news is, 99% of the time, the things that are holding you back from getting the love you want are fixable.

"No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it.” — Albert Einstein

Hey there, my name is Jiveny Blair-West. I’m a Dating and Attraction coach, passionately fascinated with attraction, dating and relationship dynamics.

Why? Because I beleive that relationships are the bliss and bane of our existence.

Sure there’s more to life than flirting, kissing, laughing, playing, making love, spooning, deep and meaningful conversations, feeling seen and supported, sharing your life with a significant other and those sweet, sultry, sensual mornings in bed with your lover...

But the real question is, is life really worth living without these things?

Intimacy and connection are fundamental aspects of being human, yet getting the love you want in your life is not always so straightforward.

My hunger to better understand relationship dynamics in life has led me to study Tantra and sacred sexuality, the art of seduction, the psychology of attraction, the nuances of communication between the sexes and the default patterns and triggers that prevent us from getting the love we really want

Perhaps a part of you feels that there is more to intimate relationships than what you’ve already experienced, yet there are very few opportunities around to teach you what you need to know quickly.​ My role as a coach is to be an objective confidant who will give you professional advice along with direct and honest feedback around the (often subconscious) blocks and barriers that are sabotaging your love life.


To find out more about how I can champion you in the realms of:
+ Dating & Attraction

+ Sacred sexuality
+ Relationships
+ Overall life satisfaction
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Jiveny Blair-West is a nature loving, yoga addict, dedicated to adventure, growth, passionately nourishing relationships and fearless self-discovery. 

For the past five years, Jiveny has been travelling the world a few times over, collecting inspiration and information to inform her work in coaching men and women on self-love, dating and attraction.

Following in the footsteps of her parents, both of whom are relationship therapists, Jiveny developed a passion for exploring the intricacies of intimacy and has dedicated much of her time to studying sacred sexuality, modern dating culture, the psychology of attraction, relationship dynamics and practical strategies for more effective communication between the sexes.

Jiveny is also the Co-Founder of Playdate Advenutres - which offers special events, workshops and boutique dating experiences for singles and couples, with an emphasis on reuniting people with their own inherent playfulness and the innocence of connection.