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AIsha, 36   |  Marketing communications

Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I was also in these relationships for the wrong reasons so I guess they were destined to fail.

I wanted to find a real, loving and lasting relationship with someone who I could trust, be myself with and who was as committed to the relationship as I was. Someone I could grow with and raise a family with. 

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships. She was able to help me to open myself to what I really wanted and let go of what wasn’t working.

Perhaps the most important thing I remember from working with Jiveny was identifying my values and how to recognise these in others. I was also able to eventually see that many of these relationships were never what I really wanted anyway. 

I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. Applying the things I learned from Jiveny to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way.

We’ve been together for four years now and have one-year-old twin baby girls. My partner is loyal beyond words - this was something I haven’t really ever been able to say before. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father.”

If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have been caught in the cycle of dating and getting in too deep with someone who wasn’t really a great match for me. Someone who I may have settled for because they wanted me, or met a particular need at the time, but would not be a good partner for me in the long term.

My advice to anyone struggling with dating and relationships is to spend the time and money investing in yourself. If you’re stuck in a situation, you’re not happy about, you’re single and you don’t know how to progress, consider working with Jiveny!

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships... I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with.

Margaret, 70 | retired researcher

Initially I sought to work with Jiveny because I wanted a healthy committed relationship, but at first was very fearful, due to my relationship history (I had had some relationships, but they were never long-term and not healthy) and, I was in my late 60’s, so I thought ‘I’m too old!!”

I discovered from the very beginning that Jiveny wasn’t concerned about my fears! She was totally accepting, warm, welcoming, perceptive and supportive in a beautiful way.

Of special interest and value is The Alchemy of Attraction work we did. Exploring the different but complementary aspects of the Feminine has been a fascinating journey. Using Jiveny’s ideas and exercises to explore the essence of these archetypes within myself has developed a deepened awareness of my feminine nature and the Archetypal energies which underpin and facilitate connection and attraction with others.

All of this work has provided me with much illumination and insight into relationships, particularly between men and women.

Recently I’ve been fortunate to meet a lovely, healthy and available man who is genuinely interested in me and in sharing the next chapters of our lives together. We've been dating for four months at the time of writing this.

From her deep knowledge and from her own experience, Jiveny provides empowering insights and concrete techniques which truly work, and is always empathic and supportive.

I feel very fortunate and privileged to be learning and benefiting from Jiveny, who is so clearly committed to supporting and facilitating healthy relationships with all of her considerable intelligence, sensitivity and skill!

This work with Jiveny continues to be a fascinating journey revealing and clarifying much about myself and the way I used to approach dating and relationships.

Lauren, 28 | Digital Marketing

Before working with Jiveny I felt insecure and unsure how to find and maintain a healthy, loving relationship. I saw this affect how I showed up in my work life, friendships and even with my family. I had also just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again.

Moving forward, I wanted to have a supportive, loving partner in my life but first I needed to understand what went wrong with my previous relationship and how to avoid history repeating.

After working with Jiveny I now understand what a healthy relationship looks and feels like, and I'm aware of the patterns and insecurities I can bring into them.

I found the content she teaches in The Alchemy of Attraction easy, enjoyable, thought-provoking and transformative. It highlighted so many different aspects that I had never really thought about or realised when it came to dating and attracting a partner.

I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour, as I was able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.

Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

All in all, if you’re thinking about working with Jiveny or joining this course, I say ‘Do it!’ You will gain so much insight into yourself, as well as human behaviour, and then be able to bring it all together to step out into the dating scene with confidence.

I have a renewed sense of self-belief and optimism thanks to Jiveny and cannot recommend her highly enough for those seeking to achieve healthy relationships!

Sheridan, 34   |  teacher

I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and felt like I had lost my way. I wanted to feel more grounded, trust in my decision making and be genuinely confident and happy with who I was so that I could meet someone to share my life with, but constant overthinking, self sabotage and lack of solid boundaries were holding me back.

Since working together, I’ve noticed that I am a much more consistent human and this has helped me become clearer on the person I want to be and the life I want to create and share with someone. I’m much more able to set and communicate boundaries that deeply serve me, prioritise myself, stick to my word and ask for help when I need it.

I found the content she teaches in The Alchemy of Attraction truly empowering. It helped me reconnect to my intuition and to parts of myself that had been hidden away for quite some time.

Since doing this course, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. We’ve been together for 3 years at the time of writing this.

The experience I had working with Jiveny was life-changing. If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long while. I don’t think I would have formed some of the extremely valuable friendships I have (as these came from living so authentically and in alignment) and I think if I had met my partner at the time having NOT done this work, it would have been a different outcome.

If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then working with Jiveny and doing AOA is an absolute must! 

If you even have a slight inclination that you want something bigger and better for yourself, your relationships and how you are experiencing life - then working with Jiveny and doing AOA is an absolute must! 

Kristina, 30 | Physiotherapist

Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away.

Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying). I was categorically single for a long time before working with Jiveny.

Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.

I found learning the Alchemy of Attraction archetypes useful in illustrating the variety of traits and qualities that we each possess, and seeing how they can play a role in building a strong and well rounded relationship when used correctly and in the right proportions. This allowed me to identify my strengths and weaknesses, making it a logical process to build upon.

I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication and discussion feel effortless and natural.

From someone that never saw myself as having huge issues with dating, yet struggled to find good long-term commitment, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed. I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!

Jiveny creates a totally comfortable space to open up, and has offered me improvements beyond what I thought possible. 

Tanisha, 22 | Student

Before working with Jiveny I struggled to attract men who I was genuinely interested in; and whenever I managed to, I found it to be quite the challenge to hold their interest. It made me feel afraid and unworthy constantly; like I needed to prove my worth whenever I felt the other person was uninterested. I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood.

Once I had seen the patterns in my parent’s relationship play out in my own, I knew it was time to call on Jiveny and I did not look back.

Since working together, Jiveny did wonders showing me where my inner strength was hiding and I learned that it is possible for my wants and needs to be met in a relationship. That there are men out there who crave connection and that in the past, most of the individuals I chose to invest my energy into were just as stuck and confused themselves.

Along this journey I have learned the importance of finding ways to regularly reconnect with myself when both single and in relationship. By staying connected to who you are and what makes you happy, it leaves room to welcome happiness and fulfilment whether or not there’s a special someone in your life.

I’m now 13 months into a new relationship that is healthy and fulfilling. Sure, we have had our challenges, however, without the mental shift Jiveny helped me achieve along with the tools I learnt with working together, I feel like I can face any challenge in a healthy way and find my way back to compassion and love (for both myself and my partner!).

I’d highly recommend Jiveny for anyone looking to refocus their minds and hearts. It’s totally worth it as Jiveny gives you the tools you need throughout life and in your relationships.

Jiveny has done such a wonderful job at helping me build my personal power in dating and relationships. 

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Sheridan, 34 | teacher

I was single for about 10 years before I started working with Jiveny and felt like I had lost my way. I wanted to feel more grounded, trust in my decision making and be genuinely confident and happy with who I was so that I could meet someone to share my life with, but constant overthinking, self sabotage and lack of solid boundaries were holding me back.

Since working with Jiveny, I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile. He is someone I can fully be myself around, who I can lean on and who I have so much fun and adventure with. He is like no-one I have met before and he brings out a better, stronger and more motivated version of myself and I couldn’t feel more grateful for the relationship we have. We’ve nearly been together for 3 years at the time of writing this.

If I hadn’t made the choice to work with Jiveny, I think I would have continued with the uncertainty, self sabotage and the feeling of being stuck for a long time.

Since working with Jiveny I have developed a relationship with a man who lights up my soul and my smile.

ALEX, 32 | MEN'S WORK FACILITATOR

Jiveny has a warm and non-judgmental approach to coaching. I found it fascinating how her questions opened up new possibilities that could be applied to my relationship with my partner immediately. I felt very comfortable working together as I could see that Jiveny really does care about helping people to have a great relationship - with full expression, while honouring each other’s wants and needs.

Thank you for your gift to the world. It is needed now more than ever before as many of us have very poor education and awareness when it comes to navigating the most intimate relating we will ever do!

A warm and non-judgemental approach to coaching

Aisha, 36 | MARKETING COMMUNICATIONS MANAGER

Before working with Jiveny I had experienced a handful of serious relationships that I had mostly sabotaged. I was also in these relationships for the wrong reasons so I guess they were destined to fail.

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking. I was finally able to get to the bottom of the ‘whys’ and ‘hows’ regarding my failed relationships. She was able to help me to open myself to what I really wanted and let go of what wasn’t working.

I have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with. Applying the things I learned from Jiveny to the early stages of our relationship really helped us to progress our connection in a much healthier way. We’ve been together for four years now and have one-year-old twin baby girls. My partner is loyal beyond words - this was something I haven’t really ever been able to say before. He puts his family first and is such a loving and involved father.

I found the work I did with Jiveny ground breaking and have since found a lifelong partner who I have started a family with.

JOSH, 25 | ENGINEER

When I first started working with Jiveny I was plagued with anxiety that I would never get to have a proper girlfriend. I had low self-esteem and struggled with anxiety.

Well to go straight to the biggest point – after working with Jiveny I soon met someone and now we are building a life together. I’ve also worked through some of the intimacy issues that I have had in the past.

This work has allowed me to become a lot more conscious of myself and how I am feeling, taking the time out to ask myself how I am each day. This has really helped to manage my anxiety. Overall, I found working with Jiveny very helpful.

From anxious to a happy, healthy relationship

MARGARET, 70 | RETIRED Researcher

When I first approached Jiveny, I was very fearful that she would not be interested in me because of my age and my, as I saw it then, failure to establish a successful relationship with a man. But, I was so wrong!

From the very beginning, Jiveny was warm, welcoming, perceptive, supportive and positive. The diversity and range of Jiveny’s skills clearly arises directly from the depth of her experience and understanding of human relationships.

This work has been and continues to be a fascinating journey revealing and clarifying much about my inner self resulting in real and very positive change. I love the way she is able to call out my strengths and deepen my perception even when my emotional state or experience feels dark. She provides concrete, empowering insights and techniques which truly work, and always is empathic and supportive!

Illuminating in often unexpected ways

JOHN, 33 | BUILDING SURVEYOR

Jiveny has helped me understand that I needed to work on myself and improve certain areas of my life which I had pushed aside as ‘not important’. Working on these areas has helped me become a more confident person, removed some of my social anxiety and assisted me to step outside of my comfort zone.

Since working together, I have improved my flirting skills and general conversation skills. I have also recognised that most women want a man to take the first step and approach. Together we have worked on developing stronger leadership skills, better understanding women and growing my internal confidence. This has put me in a better position to find the right partner that will complement me in life and has made the dating process a lot easier.

I have improved my flirting and general conversation skills.

Lauren, 28 | digital Marketing Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had just come out of a 6-year relationship and was realising I didn’t want to repeat the same mistakes or be with that kind of person again. After working with Jiveny I experienced a major shift in my dating behaviour. I was much more able to identify partners that were not suitable for me and avoid them, as well as understand how to navigate dating better and really get to know a partner as we built the connection.

Best of all this journey has led me to a healthy, fulfilling relationship where I feel a new awareness and confidence! I know what I want and deserve in a partner and I am able to bring my best self to the relationship. I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

I didn’t think it was truly possible to find this kind of relationship before working with Jiveny.

SEB, 37 | LAWYER

I was disillusioned with my dating life and seeking a long-term healthy relationship so I contacted Jiveny. From our very first session, I felt comfortable and excited to begin working with her.

Through our work, she helped me identify my barriers, clarify what I wanted in a partner and what a healthy relationship looked like. I was also able to identify the mistakes I had been making. This work has really helped me to developed much more confidence in dating and relationship and I was excited to put what we worked on into practice.

I am now in the best relationship I have ever had and excited for the future. I attribute this to the work I did with Jiveny. Whether you are in the dating world or in a relationship, I would not hesitate in recommending Jiveny. She has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.

Jiveny has changed my life for the better, making me the happiest I’ve been in a long time.

KRISTINA, 30 | PHYSIOTHERAPIST

Before working with Jiveny I was struggling with choosing the wrong men and navigating my insecurities. I wanted a serious, committed relationship but I often had trouble keeping guys interested or would wind up chasing them away. Other times, I would go for an easy guy who liked me (which was never very satisfying).

Since working together, I’ve noticed a huge shift in my mindset and approach to dating for the better. I’m much more able to manage my reactions and approach, allowing the guys I am interested in to come to me.

I’ve now met a great guy who is proactive in building a healthy relationship with me and who puts effort in to keep things fun and interesting. Even better he also takes an interest in personal development and makes open communication feel effortless and natural. Overall, I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed and I cannot recommend Jiveny highly enough!

 I have been amazed with how much I have learnt and progressed.

PAUL, 46 | IT MANAGER

I found working with Jiveny was a valuable process of self discovery. It was helpful to learn the small things that can really make a difference in meeting someone as well as strategies to detach from the outcome of an interaction and be more present with women. The insights and exercises helped me to understand the sorts of things I'd done wrong in the past that most women aren't going to overlook.

Her female perspective was helpful because there are just some things we don't learn or pick up on along the way - sometimes someone actually needs to tell us directly. Also, while Jiveny's coaching is primarily focused on helping us to meet people and find that special someone, I found it also gave me a vehicle to figure out the sort of life I want to be living and how to be happy with or without a partner.

Her female perspective was helpful because there are just some things we don't learn or pick up on along the way

TANISHA, 22 | STUDENT

Before working with Jiveny I struggled to attract men who I was genuinely interested in; and whenever I managed to, I found it to be quite the challenge to hold their interest. It made me feel afraid and unworthy constantly; like I needed to prove my worth whenever I felt the other person was uninterested.

I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood. Jiveny has done wonders in showing me where my inner strength was hiding and I learned that it is possible for my wants and needs to be met in a relationship. I’m now 13 months into a new relationship that is healthy and fulfilling and I’d highly recommend Jiveny for anyone looking to refocus their minds and hearts. 

I craved to be part of a healthy, committed relationship without having to carry the baggage I’d collated over the years of my childhood.

DANIEL, 25 | RESEARCH ASSISTANT

I would definitely recommend Jiveny to anyone looking for support in their own journey of personal growth. I have found that working with her has made an astronomical difference to my dating life and the relationships I have with my work colleagues and family members.

I have always appreciated Jiveny's approach to understanding what I need and tailoring our sessions accordingly. Jiveny has also offered additional resources for those like me, who love to self learn. All in all, my work with Jiveny has fundamentally changed the way I view the world around me for the better.

Working with Jiveny has made an astronomical difference to my dating life and the relationships

ANNE, 56 | TRAVEL INDUSTRY Executive

Before working with Jiveny I had been meandering the online dating circuit for about 18 months with no real luck beyond a third date. Jiveny helped me to understand the destructive patterns I had created for myself and assisted me in developing a greater awareness of the ways in which I was self-sabotaging my love life.

Throughout our sessions together, I felt a genuine sense of care from Jiveny and never rushed. Her course materials and resources are fantastic and really helped me to get clear on what I want from a relationship and why. The best support has been in understanding the decisions I have made and how these have drawn the wrong kinds of people to me in the past. The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

Best of all, I am now in a healthy long-term relationship with a wonderful man.

The tools she has given me to navigate dating and relationships are invaluable.

ZOE, 31 | PROJECT MANAGER

Jiveny gave me permission to speak openly about some of my deepest fears, anxieties, desires and dreams and was completely present with me as I talked. Her questions guided me to self-assess and reflect on my own beliefs and attitudes in ways that I had never considered before.

Through this, I discovered new ways to think about and overcome habitual thought patterns that had been preventing me from self-acceptance. Most of all, Jiveny helped me identify the deeper core feelings and unmet needs stopping me from living my life fully. After our coaching sessions I've felt a deeper sense clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment.

Clarity, confidence and a true sense of empowerment

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