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“Are they the one?!” It is the question that every woman will be asked during their 20s. Some of us will respond confidently and others will reply, “I think?”.

Interview on ‘The WoW’ Podcast: Finding The One

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In this interview, Jiveny talks Jamila and Astrid through how the younger generations can make one of the biggest decisions of their lives.

Interview on ‘Anonymous Was A Woman’ Podcast: Jiveny Blair-West: On Love

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I’ll Let you in on a little secret… Good love & healthy intimate relationships did not always come naturally to me. Perhaps that’s why I’ve dedicated my life and career to understanding these things.  As I complete the manuscript for our upcoming book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life’ I’ve been reflecting […]

The Available / Unavailable Pattern

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The following is an excerpt from our book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life‘ When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world […]

The Thrill of The Chase: Dating While Pacing

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Jiveny Speaks at TEDxBrisbane 2107. #StandUp 02 December 2017, Brisbane, Australia. Photo: TEDxBrisbane In December 2017 I took a big step towards an important dream of mine and gave a 60-second talk on what I call ‘Empowered Vulnerability’ for TEDx Brisbane (video to come). If you’re familiar with TED talks, you will probably agree that […]

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

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