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When it comes to dating, many of us have heard the term “red flag” before. What might be less clear is how to identify a true red flag? And while we’re on the subject, what about green flags? To help you out, here are 10 red flags and their green flag alternatives…

10 Red Flags & Green Flags to Keep an Eye on When Dating…

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There is no decision that will have a greater impact on our lives than finding the one. This is the person you choose to share your emotional, parental and financial future with. Nikolina has already locked in her answer, but Claudia & Jenna are looking for some advice…

Interview on the ‘How To Life’ Podcast: How To Find The One

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“Are they the one?!” It is the question that every woman will be asked during their 20s. Some of us will respond confidently and others will reply, “I think?”.

Interview on ‘The WoW’ Podcast: Finding The One

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In this interview, Jiveny talks Jamila and Astrid through how the younger generations can make one of the biggest decisions of their lives.

Interview on ‘Anonymous Was A Woman’ Podcast: Jiveny Blair-West: On Love

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Warning, this article contains references to sexual assault that some readers might find disturbing… Recently Australian investigative journalism program Four Corners and Triple J Hack launched an exposé into the dark side of Tinder.

The Dark Side of Tinder: Staying Safe While Dating Online

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I’ll Let you in on a little secret… Good love & healthy intimate relationships did not always come naturally to me. Perhaps that’s why I’ve dedicated my life and career to understanding these things.  As I complete the manuscript for our upcoming book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life’ I’ve been reflecting […]

The Available / Unavailable Pattern

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As I recently wrote about here, now that so many of us are stuck at home, digital dating is fast becoming the new normal. Dating Apps are experiencing record engagement and many of their users are picking up the phone or turning on the camera to get to know their latest match. Still, for many […]

The Dos & Don’ts of Digital First Dates

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When much of the world started living under lockdown just a few weeks ago, I wondered what this would mean for people’s dating lives… Surprisingly, as people have started to settle into quarantine, the latest stats have come out suggesting the online dating world is absolutely flourishing. Many dating apps and websites are reporting a […]

Digital Dating in the Time of Corona

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The following is an excerpt from our book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life‘ When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world […]

The Thrill of The Chase: Dating While Pacing

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, I wanted to know what’s the best way to put myself out there in dating? I have a HUGE fear of rejection and tend to not date or be the one asking out the guy because I’m too nervous I’m the one […]

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Since 2016 I’ve been working with singles aged 20-70, helping them to re-claim their personal power, date well, create a meaningful, lasting relationship and find more joy in their everyday life. If that's the kind of support you are looking for, it would be my pleasure to help you do the same!

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