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Why do some people tend to be more aloof and unattached in their relationships, while others are more codependent and need more reassurance? Attachment theory, studied since 1958, explains how different people have different relating styles. Understanding our own default style can help to explain many of the patterns and challenges you may face

Understanding Attachment Styles

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I’ll Let you in on a little secret… Good love & healthy intimate relationships did not always come naturally to me. Perhaps that’s why I’ve dedicated my life and career to understanding these things. As I complete the manuscript for our upcoming book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life’ I’ve been reflecting […]

The Available / Unavailable Pattern

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Since 2016 I’ve been working with singles aged 20-70, helping them to re-claim their personal power, date well, create a meaningful, lasting relationship and find more joy in their everyday life. If that's the kind of support you are looking for, it would be my pleasure to help you do the same!

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