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There is no decision that will have a greater impact on our lives than finding the one. This is the person you choose to share your emotional, parental and financial future with. Nikolina has already locked in her answer, but Claudia & Jenna are looking for some advice…

Interview on the ‘How To Life’ Podcast: How To Find The One

Dating

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“Are they the one?!” It is the question that every woman will be asked during their 20s. Some of us will respond confidently and others will reply, “I think?”.

Interview on ‘The WoW’ Podcast: Finding The One

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Today Kristy has an incredibly magical conversation with Jiveny Blair-West. Jiveny is a Dating & Attraction Coach and co-author of How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life. This book explores how the partner we choose can have a huge impact on our lives and how we can integrate the head and the heart to find ourselves the best match.

Interview on the ‘Kristy Unedited’ Podcast: Putting Your Best Foot Forward in Love

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Finding ’the one’ just got a whole lot less stressful thanks to father and daughter duo Dr. George & Jiveny Blair West. In this episode, Cecelia and Nat get to ask the hard questions..

Interview on ‘The Wellness Collective’ podcast: How to Make The Biggest Decision of Your Life

Dating

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In this interview, Jiveny talks Jamila and Astrid through how the younger generations can make one of the biggest decisions of their lives.

Interview on ‘Anonymous Was A Woman’ Podcast: Jiveny Blair-West: On Love

Online Dating

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Warning, this article contains references to sexual assault that some readers might find disturbing… Recently Australian investigative journalism program Four Corners and Triple J Hack launched an exposé into the dark side of Tinder.

The Dark Side of Tinder: Staying Safe While Dating Online

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Episode 122 is a conversation with Jiveny Blair-West about all things dating and attraction. We speak about: Flirting, Dating on line, Falling in love with potential, Dating as a single parent. How our emotional wounds impact our attraction.

Interview on ‘The Frae’ podcast: Dating, Flirting, Falling Fast & Attraction

Attraction

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It was midday and I was on my way to a first date with a guy I’d been crushing on for a while… Finally, I was about to go on a date with someone I was genuinely interested in! I had already spent over an hour preparing, blow drying my hair, doing my makeup and […]

The Quest To Impress: A Modern Dating Myth

Online Dating

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When much of the world started living under lockdown just a few weeks ago, I wondered what this would mean for people’s dating lives… Surprisingly, as people have started to settle into quarantine, the latest stats have come out suggesting the online dating world is absolutely flourishing. Many dating apps and websites are reporting a […]

Digital Dating in the Time of Corona

Dating

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When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world is the concept of pacing. Pacing is all about moving at a similar speed to a new […]

The Thrill of The Chase: Dating While Pacing

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

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