If you choose to pick a partner for life it is an enormous decision. We can get swept away with the idealization of love, romance, dream of meeting & being swept off your feet by your ‘soulmate’ your true love, being struck by cupid’s bow, or experiencing an amazing metaphysical connection.

When it comes to dating, many of us have heard the term “red flag” before. What might be less clear is how to identify a true red flag? And while we’re on the subject, what about green flags? To help you out, here are 10 red flags and their green flag alternatives…

Why do some people tend to be more aloof and unattached in their relationships, while others are more codependent and need more reassurance? Attachment theory, studied since 1958, explains how different people have different relating styles. Understanding our own default style can help to explain many of the patterns and challenges you may face

There is no decision that will have a greater impact on our lives than finding the one. This is the person you choose to share your emotional, parental and financial future with. Nikolina has already locked in her answer, but Claudia & Jenna are looking for some advice…

“Are they the one?!” It is the question that every woman will be asked during their 20s. Some of us will respond confidently and others will reply, “I think?”.

In this interview, Jiveny talks Jamila and Astrid through how the younger generations can make one of the biggest decisions of their lives.

Warning, this article contains references to sexual assault that some readers might find disturbing… Recently Australian investigative journalism program Four Corners and Triple J Hack launched an exposé into the dark side of Tinder.

It was midday and I was on my way to a first date with a guy I’d been crushing on for a while… Finally, I was about to go on a date with someone I was genuinely interested in! I had already spent over an hour preparing, blow drying my hair, doing my makeup and […]

When much of the world started living under lockdown just a few weeks ago, I wondered what this would mean for people’s dating lives… Surprisingly, as people have started to settle into quarantine, the latest stats have come out suggesting the online dating world is absolutely flourishing. Many dating apps and websites are reporting a […]

The following is an excerpt from our book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life‘ When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world […]