Today we’re heading into the world of dating & relationships with dating and attraction coach Jiveny Blair-West.

If you choose to pick a partner for life it is an enormous decision. We can get swept away with the idealization of love, romance, dream of meeting & being swept off your feet by your ‘soulmate’ your true love, being struck by cupid’s bow, or experiencing an amazing metaphysical connection.

Why do some people tend to be more aloof and unattached in their relationships, while others are more codependent and need more reassurance? Attachment theory, studied since 1958, explains how different people have different relating styles. Understanding our own default style can help to explain many of the patterns and challenges you may face

There is no decision that will have a greater impact on our lives than finding the one. This is the person you choose to share your emotional, parental and financial future with. Nikolina has already locked in her answer, but Claudia & Jenna are looking for some advice…

“Are they the one?!” It is the question that every woman will be asked during their 20s. Some of us will respond confidently and others will reply, “I think?”.

In this interview, Jiveny talks Jamila and Astrid through how the younger generations can make one of the biggest decisions of their lives.

I’m often asked how I would define ‘love’; a word that gets tossed around lightly, in many different ways every day. Because of the nature of my work, I generally focus on how love relates to a healthy relationship mindset. So how do I define love?

Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, Do you think it’s possible for ONE person tick all of your boxes? Or is that too much pressure to put onto one person? Thanks, S. Hey S, While this a short question, there’s a bit of complexity we need to unpack […]

Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, I wanted to know what’s the best way to put myself out there in dating? I have a HUGE fear of rejection and tend to not date or be the one asking out the guy because I’m too nervous I’m the one […]

Relationship education is a BIG part of what drives me forward with this work as it paves the way for future generations to learn to love better. Below is a video of a talk I did last year exploring our capacity to choose the other parent of our children more consciously. IF YOU’RE THINKING ABOUT […]