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Dating

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I’ve been having some thought-provoking conversations with clients behind the scenes lately, and one recurring theme stands out:
The connection between struggling to attract the right relationship and lacking seduction skills.

Seduction Skills vs. Relationship Skills

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Embrace the Journey: Why Sometimes, the Best Things Take Longer Than You Want Them To—From House Hunting to Finding Your Person, It’s a Wild Ride Worth the Wait!

When Things Take Longer Than You Want Them To…

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F*Boy Island reveals the challenging task of distinguishing Fboys from high-quality men. Can you spot the smooth operators? Learn three crucial signs to separate the players from the keepers in the intriguing world of modern dating.

How To Tell An Fboy From A High-Quality Man

Relationships

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I loved to sabotage things during the early stages of dating. I would write people off immediately over tiny little icks. I had walls up. I would pretend I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I would try and play the dating “game”, but just seemed to always lose.

Interview: Overcoming The Blocks & Barriers To A Great Relationship

Dating

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In this short, 15-minute video call, Andrew from Core Confidence Coaching interviews me about my approach to 1:1 coaching, insight into the modern dating scene and some general advice for single men and women. This is a great place to start if you want to get a feel for how I work!

Interview: Australia’s Leading Dating & Attraction Coach

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Today we’re heading into the world of dating & relationships with dating and attraction coach Jiveny Blair-West.

Interview: Transforming Your Love Life with Jiveny Blair West

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If you choose to pick a partner for life it is an enormous decision. We can get swept away with the idealization of love, romance, dream of meeting & being swept off your feet by your ‘soulmate’ your true love, being struck by cupid’s bow, or experiencing an amazing metaphysical connection.

Interview: Navigating The Biggest Decision of Your Life

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When it comes to dating, many of us have heard the term “red flag” before. What might be less clear is how to identify a true red flag? And while we’re on the subject, what about green flags? To help you out, here are 10 red flags and their green flag alternatives…

10 Red Flags & Green Flags to Keep an Eye on When Dating…

Attachment Styles Dating Relationships

Attraction

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Why do some people tend to be more aloof and unattached in their relationships, while others are more codependent and need more reassurance? Attachment theory, studied since 1958, explains how different people have different relating styles. Understanding our own default style can help to explain many of the patterns and challenges you may face

Understanding Attachment Styles

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There is no decision that will have a greater impact on our lives than finding the one. This is the person you choose to share your emotional, parental and financial future with. Nikolina has already locked in her answer, but Claudia & Jenna are looking for some advice…

Interview on the ‘How To Life’ Podcast: How To Find The One

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

Hi, I'm Jiveny Blair-West. 

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