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I’ve been having some thought-provoking conversations with clients behind the scenes lately, and one recurring theme stands out:
The connection between struggling to attract the right relationship and lacking seduction skills.

Seduction Skills vs. Relationship Skills

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There’s a lot of bad dating advice out there… As a result, often, dating can become a case of the blind leading the blind! Read on for some of the most common tidbits of bad dating advice out there and what I would advise instead…

6 Pieces of Bad Dating Advice (and what I would suggest instead)

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Today Kristy has an incredibly magical conversation with Jiveny Blair-West. Jiveny is a Dating & Attraction Coach and co-author of How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life. This book explores how the partner we choose can have a huge impact on our lives and how we can integrate the head and the heart to find ourselves the best match.

Interview on the ‘Kristy Unedited’ Podcast: Putting Your Best Foot Forward in Love

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When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world is the concept of pacing. Pacing is all about moving at a similar speed to a new […]

The Thrill of The Chase: Dating While Pacing

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In December 2017 I took a big step towards an important dream of mine and gave a 60-second talk on what I call ‘Empowered Vulnerability’ for TEDx Brisbane (video to come). If you’re familiar with TED talks, you will probably agree that the TED community is rich with insight. Ideas are one of my favourite […]

My Favourite Ted Talks

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

Hi, I'm Jiveny Blair-West. 

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