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F*Boy Island reveals the challenging task of distinguishing Fboys from high-quality men. Can you spot the smooth operators? Learn three crucial signs to separate the players from the keepers in the intriguing world of modern dating.

How To Tell An Fboy From A High-Quality Man

Dating

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There’s a lot of bad dating advice out there… As a result, often, dating can become a case of the blind leading the blind! Read on for some of the most common tidbits of bad dating advice out there and what I would advise instead…

6 Pieces of Bad Dating Advice (and what I would suggest instead)

Offline Dating

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, I wanted to know what’s the best way to put myself out there in dating? I have a HUGE fear of rejection and tend to not date or be the one asking out the guy because I’m too nervous I’m the one […]

#Asked: Fear Of Rejection

Relationships

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, My partner has been pretty silent lately, not having sex, still smiling and giving me kisses but has been saying things I would consider mean and pulling me up on things he wouldn’t usually. I tried to talk to him about it […]

#Asked: When He Pulls Away…

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

Hi, I'm Jiveny Blair-West. 

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