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Warning, this article contains references to sexual assault that some readers might find disturbing…  Recently Australian investigative journalism program Four Corners and Triple J Hack launched an exposé into the dark side of Tinder. In this disturbing report several women came forward to tell their stories of how some opportunistic sexual predators have been taking […]

The Dark Side of Tinder: Staying Safe While Dating Online

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Episode 122 is a conversation with Jiveny Blair-West about all things dating and attraction. We speak about: Flirting, Dating on line, Falling in love with potential, Dating as a single parent. How our emotional wounds impact our attraction.

Interview on ‘The Frae’ podcast: Dating, Flirting, Falling Fast & Attraction

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I’m often asked how I would define ‘love’; a word that gets tossed around lightly, in many different ways every day. Because of the nature of my work, I generally focus on how love relates to a healthy relationship mindset. So how do I define love? Or perhaps more accurately, suggest that we think about […]

Re-Defining Love: A Dating Coach’s Perspective

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I’ll Let you in on a little secret… Good love & healthy intimate relationships did not always come naturally to me. Perhaps that’s why I’ve dedicated my life and career to understanding these things.  As I complete the manuscript for our upcoming book ‘How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life’ I’ve been reflecting […]

The Available / Unavailable Pattern

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The most important relationship we will ever have in life is the one we have with ourselves. Yep, that might sound clichéd but it’s a cliché for a reason. Because it’s true. Yet so often we run from ourselves, reaching for the next distraction, afraid to face ourselves in the mirror in case we don’t […]

Building The Most Important Relationship You Will Ever Have

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It was midday and I was on my way to a first date with a guy I’d been crushing on for a while… Finally, I was about to go on a date with someone I was genuinely interested in! I had already spent over an hour preparing, blow drying my hair, doing my makeup and […]

The Quest To Impress: A Modern Dating Myth

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As I recently wrote about here, now that so many of us are stuck at home, digital dating is fast becoming the new normal. Dating Apps are experiencing record engagement and many of their users are picking up the phone or turning on the camera to get to know their latest match. Still, for many […]

The Dos & Don’ts of Digital First Dates

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When much of the world started living under lockdown just a few weeks ago, I wondered what this would mean for people’s dating lives… Surprisingly, as people have started to settle into quarantine, the latest stats have come out suggesting the online dating world is absolutely flourishing. Many dating apps and websites are reporting a […]

Digital Dating in the Time of Corona

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When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world is the concept of pacing. Pacing is all about moving at a similar speed to a new […]

The Thrill of The Chase: Dating While Pacing

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, Do you think it’s possible for ONE person tick all of your boxes? Or is that too much pressure to put onto one person? Thanks, S. Hey S, While this a short question, there’s a bit of complexity we need to unpack […]

#Asked: Can One Person Tick All My Boxes?

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

Hi, I'm Jiveny Blair-West. 

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