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It was midday and I was on my way to a first date with a guy I’d been crushing on for a while… Finally, I was about to go on a date with someone I was genuinely interested in! I had already spent over an hour preparing, blow drying my hair, doing my makeup and […]

The Quest To Impress: A Modern Dating Myth

Online Dating

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As I recently wrote about here, now that so many of us are stuck at home, digital dating is fast becoming the new normal. Dating Apps are experiencing record engagement and many of their users are picking up the phone or turning on the camera to get to know their latest match. Still, for many […]

The Dos & Don’ts of Digital First Dates

Online Dating

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When much of the world started living under lockdown just a few weeks ago, I wondered what this would mean for people’s dating lives… Surprisingly, as people have started to settle into quarantine, the latest stats have come out suggesting the online dating world is absolutely flourishing. Many dating apps and websites are reporting a […]

Digital Dating in the Time of Corona

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When I want to end a relationship I just say,‘You know, I love you. I want to marry you. I want to have your children.’ – Rita Rudner Perhaps one of the most overlooked ideas in the dating world is the concept of pacing. Pacing is all about moving at a similar speed to a new […]

The Thrill of The Chase: Dating While Pacing

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, Do you think it’s possible for ONE person tick all of your boxes? Or is that too much pressure to put onto one person? Thanks, S. Hey S, While this a short question, there’s a bit of complexity we need to unpack […]

#Asked: Can One Person Tick All My Boxes?

Offline Dating

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, I wanted to know what’s the best way to put myself out there in dating? I have a HUGE fear of rejection and tend to not date or be the one asking out the guy because I’m too nervous I’m the one […]

#Asked: Fear Of Rejection

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Relationship education is a BIG part of what drives me forward with this work as it paves the way for future generations to learn to love better. Below is a video of a talk I did last year exploring our capacity to choose the other parent of our children more consciously. IF YOU’RE THINKING ABOUT […]

How To Make The Biggest Decision Of Your Life

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Disclaimer: All responses are general in nature, not specific relationship advice. Hi Jiveny, My partner has been pretty silent lately, not having sex, still smiling and giving me kisses but has been saying things I would consider mean and pulling me up on things he wouldn’t usually. I tried to talk to him about it […]

#Asked: When He Pulls Away…

Dating

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In December 2017 I took a big step towards an important dream of mine and gave a 60-second talk on what I call ‘Empowered Vulnerability’ for TEDx Brisbane (video to come). If you’re familiar with TED talks, you will probably agree that the TED community is rich with insight. Ideas are one of my favourite […]

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As a Dating & Attraction Coach, I mentor and support men and women aged 20-70 to identify and overcome the blocks and barriers that prevent us from experiencing good love. For me, there is nothing quite as rewarding as helping people develop the necessary skills to attract and build a healthy relationship.

It is well understood that we need healthy, intimate relationships to thrive in life. However getting the love you want is not always so straight forward.

Truth is, most of us were never formally taught the life skills of dating, attraction and relationships...

Hi, I'm Jiveny Blair-West. 

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